1, parents test themselves to help their children open the door of "I can do it". Lu Qin divided "I can" into six powers: first, the power of appreciation-believing in yourself and believing that you can do it. Adults appreciate children's eyes, which can make children discover beautiful things and create miracles; The second is the power of trust-believe in yourself, you are very important.

Trust in children will make children full of self-confidence and be of great help to their later lives; The third is to discover strength-believe in yourself, and you are a miracle. Learn to use the power of discovery and believe that you are gold; The fourth is evaluation-believe in yourself, you are great.

2. Preschool children's mental health standards. Normal psychological activities, showing their age and ability; Like to associate with people, like to make friends, treat people warmly; Full of emotion, can show emotion and optimistic attitude towards things; Cheerful and lively personality, such as open-minded, positive and kind.

While accepting my strong self-confidence, I can also do what I can, take the initiative to participate in various activities, be not afraid of difficulties, have a preliminary sense of responsibility, and be responsible for myself; Strong self-care ability, brave to overcome difficulties.

3. Create a healthy family education atmosphere and the role of parents. Some people say that parents play many important roles in children's lives. Parents can be children's friends, leaders, role models, part-time teachers, health care doctors and tour guides.

Let parents play so many roles, then in life, parents should not only respect and trust their children, but also communicate with them equally, be their friends at ordinary times and be their leaders at key times, but they must make their own decisions on many things and cannot be willful by their children; As a child's first teacher, we should know that example is more effective than words and deeds, so we should talk to children as little as possible and guide them to discover and explore.

More importantly, every parent in life should set an example for their children and take them to explore; Long-term parents are not "carriers", but "guides" to guide their children to embark on a journey, so that they can have a healthy body and walk on their own life path through the virtue of their own knowledge and experience.

Extended data:

At present, the current situation of children's family education in the semester mainly has the following misunderstandings:

1, the child's concept is backward. For example, many parents lack understanding of their children's physical and mental development and scientific educational knowledge. Children are accessories, and personal wishes are imposed on them, and gifted education is vigorously promoted, which leads to the phenomenon of pulling out seedlings and fueling them.

2. The educational goal is not balanced. For example, parents' high cultural expectations, professional expectations and psychological expectations; Attaching importance to intelligence first, coupled with the early educational trend of thought, ignores the psychological development process of children, and the phenomenon of being tired of learning and playing truant after entering school occurs from time to time; Light ability, thinking that children are too young to understand anything and have poor self-care ability; Pay attention to your health and have no worries about food and clothing; Light mental health, so small, thinking that you don't need it or ignore it.

3. The educational method is unscientific. Improper parenting attitude, such as thinking that children are young or busy, leads to the separation of parenting; Extreme educational methods, such as being too intimate, caring, conniving, arranging everything, or even meeting all needs inappropriately, will affect children's mental health and have a counterproductive effect.

4. Out of touch with kindergarten education. For example, parents let their children recite, and teachers support learning in games; Parents set out from their own wishes and let their children attend various special classes, while teachers let their children develop freely. The deviation of educational content leads to the weakness of educational strength.

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