-on the success of action

I have read many books about success, but this book about action success written by Li Jian integrates the knowledge and methods of success into daily life, which can be used not only in personal practice, so that you can experience success every day, but also in enterprise management, forming a unique "successful management model", so anyone who wants to succeed must read this book.

Everyone has a desire to succeed. Although people who dream of success may not be successful, there are ways to succeed and success is inevitable. How can we succeed?

First, recognize success.

There are three necessary conditions for success: first, make up your mind to be a successful person. Whether a person can succeed depends on your own determination first. Although people are born with a desire for success, with the relentless attack of family, teachers and social people in the real society, people are becoming more and more numb to success. How to raise the success of the subconscious to consciousness and turn "wanting to succeed" into "being sure to succeed" must find enough reasons for success. Of course, you have the determination to succeed. Secondly, you should have persistent confidence and perseverance. Nothing is impossible in the world. Only those who can't do it, one who can persist to death and suffer from the sufferings that ordinary people can't eat, will certainly be able to do what ordinary people can't do. Finally, learning successful methods can help you learn the methods that successful people have proved to be effective in the shortest time, associate with successful people, have the world outlook and thinking methods of successful people, constantly develop your own specialties according to your own actual situation, integrate your own resources and achieve success.

Second, we must have clear goals and a positive and optimistic attitude.

As the saying goes, great men have ambitions in their hearts, while ordinary people have ambitions in their hearts. A man is great because he has a great goal from the beginning. Therefore, to be a successful person, we must first have a clear goal, and the establishment of the goal must be quantifiable and implementable. Of course, you can set short-term and medium-term goals and ultimate goals in life according to your actual situation. It is important to have a clear goal, but the establishment of the goal is just like a navigator having a beacon. However, during the voyage, you will encounter waves, rocks and icebergs. If you want to survive these storms and reach your destination, you need to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude in addition to clear goals and navigation skills, so that you can still firmly believe that you can reach your destination smoothly and safely in the face of many difficulties and obstacles. On the other hand, a negative person can't see the opportunity coming, because he can't see the hope, and he has no confidence to complete the goal he has set. He lacks motivation in acting and can't really stimulate his potential. As long as he encounters some difficulties in the process of action, he will shrink back and dare not act, thus forming a vicious circle, and it is always difficult to achieve the set goals.

Third, effectively manage time, cultivate immediate action in everything, and constantly innovate in action.

Franklin said, "Time is life, time is efficiency, and time is money". The preciousness of time makes it urgent for us to manage time actively and effectively. In order to manage time effectively, it is necessary to cultivate immediate action in everything, without delay or timidity. As the saying goes, practice is the only way to test the truth, integrating theory with practice, understanding in action, and correcting in action, so as to achieve the height of unity of knowledge and action. At the same time, we must constantly explore, forge ahead and innovate in action, so as to truly improve our lives and achieve the purpose of changing our destiny and transforming the world.

Of course, everyone's situation is different, and the criteria for measuring success are different. So there are often some differences in the definition of success, but no matter what kind of success he has, there are certain methods to follow. Maybe the success mentioned in this book may not be completely in line with your situation, or maybe you don't quite agree with some viewpoints in this book. Personally, I think we can seek common ground while reserving differences for reference!

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Reflections on Become What You Want to Be (Realistic Edition)

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ID: 1026 1303, I am Miss Ying, published in: 2007-8-151:32: 52.

Recently, I was reading a successful book, Become the Person I Want to Be. The book is very thick and talks about many knowledge points, such as success, psychology, time management and so on. Among them, four points are my biggest gains. I want to share with you here:

1, don't "limit yourself"

The case of "fleas and crawling fleas" cited in the book left a deep impression on me. The flea has a strong jumping ability. The height it can jump is 30 times its length. Then why can't fleas jump without a glass cover? That's because he thinks the glass cover still exists. "Thinking" is a kind of "self-limitation". Just like us, everyone has some kind of ability, but we don't know it, or we don't want to develop our potential. It's just that we are telling ourselves "I don't have this ability". We set too many restrictions on ourselves and set too many "glass covers". The existence of the "glass cover" makes our ability unable to play and makes us unable to see ourselves clearly. If we remove the restrictions, our potential will be unlimited.

2. Keep a positive and optimistic attitude.

It has been said that there is only a little difference between people, but the result of this difference is huge. The slight difference between the former is a positive attitude and a negative attitude; But the result is completely different.

Treating life with a positive attitude can bring us happiness, happiness, peace of mind and healthy body. A negative attitude will only bring us self-limitation, self-isolation and self-pity.

3. Do what you are afraid to do.

Everyone has something he is afraid to do. Think about it. Is it really that difficult? Actually, it's not that difficult, but we dare not take the first step. This is what we often say "everything is difficult at the beginning". Taking the first step, you will find that many things are not as difficult as we imagined, but we are just imagining it ourselves.

The more you dare to do, the more you have to do, otherwise you will always be afraid and never break through your psychological barriers. If you want to succeed, you must do what you are afraid to do and overcome it one by one. What if someone is afraid to talk to others? Then deal with the outside world more, and you will not be afraid to talk more; Some people are afraid of bargaining with others and find it difficult to talk about it. What should I do? Then go shopping and bargain every day. After two weeks, are you still afraid of embarrassment?

4. Avoid "destructive criticism" of children.

We often hear our parents say to us, "How can you be so stupid that you can't even do such a thing well and eat so much for nothing!" " ""You are too stupid to teach you anything "and so on. In this way, the child will bear a heavy mental burden and will always tell himself that I am not good and I am wrong. After a long time, children will become cautious and afraid to associate with others. Looking at it from another angle, it is also the parents who invisibly pass on their negative mentality to their children, and the children will also use this attitude to their children after hearing it. A vicious circle, the negative impact will be enormous.

Similarly, such negative effects also exist in our work. Leaders will use destructive criticism on subordinates, and subordinates will not only have psychological shadows, but also vent this shadow on other subordinates. In the long run, there will be serious problems in the corporate culture of this enterprise.

These are my gains from reading this book and my shortcomings. Please give me some suggestions.

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Be the person you want to be ―― the feeling after reading.

Today's era is a turbulent era, but also an era of frequent opportunities; This is also an era full of miracles and unlimited creativity; In this era of competition, human beings follow the principle of "natural selection, survival of the fittest" put forward by Darwin without exception. In the ups and downs, the times are destined to create the mentality of people who are eager for success. Therefore, people seek the road to success as never before.

Everyone is eager for success, which is beyond doubt and criticism. However, through the lens of the times, even if they succeed, many people are still morbid. For example, they are giants in words and dwarfs in practice; Or it rises like a bubble but evaporates instantly; Or rich in wealth and beggars in spirit; Or an accidental Yuelongmen, but it disappeared in necessity. ...

What is the sign of success? Is success inevitable? Where is the only way to success? Reading Mr. Li Jian's new book "Become the Person You Want to Be", I suddenly feel that my eyes are shining and I have an epiphany.

Mr Li Jian himself is a successful model. As an entrepreneur, in just three or four years, the young man first made a small advertising company into the most influential advertising enterprise group in Yunnan Province, and then sublimated it into a company with a high-tech background. As a master of Taekwondo, he took the word "Dao" to the extreme. He not only practiced, but also understood the essence. From the philosophical level, he discovered many mysteries that guide enterprises and even life.

"Exchange an apple and everyone gets an apple; Exchange one idea and you will get two ideas. " This should also be regarded as the original intention of our reading and self-cultivation activities. In this era of knowledge economy, which advocates lifelong learning and emphasizes continuous innovation, a large number of facts tell us that the real winners are not only those who are diligent in thinking and quick in action, but also those who know the way of life and career, and this way is the law, that is, the integration of knowledge and practice.

To this end, I can say responsibly that this book is a rare and successful tutor! Its value lies in practicality and operability, and it integrates successful knowledge and methods into daily life. It can be used not only in personal practice, so that you can experience success every day, but also in enterprise management, forming a unique "successful management model".

The following points, which I occasionally find interesting after reading this book, are three necessary conditions for success:

1, determined to be a successful person.

Success is everyone's dream. This dream is accompanied by life. According to Freud's theory, people are born with the desire to be great. People come for success and live for success. Most people can persevere through life because there is always a desire for success. We call it faith, mission, responsibility and task. There are always expectations and concerns, and there is always a desire to complete. Otherwise, the heart is unwilling and hard to see. Success means abundance, health, happiness, happiness and strength ... in human society, these things always get the most respect and praise. Everyone pursues success. All over the world, rich or poor, who will stand up and say, I don't want to succeed, I don't want to succeed? But even so, it doesn't mean that everyone can succeed, because it's just a natural condition for success. It's a part of people's origin, just like people's innate desire for food and color, and so is their desire for success. That's all, you can't control yourself on the road to success. Imagine that if this is the case, I am afraid that all people with normal physiology in the world will succeed. Success also requires determination to succeed. This reminds me of a sentence my mother often told me when I was very young: people who have no will will always yearn for it, and those who have will always yearn for it. To succeed, determination is the first condition, because the road to success will not open the door for some ambitious and enterprising people for no reason. Many successful people often go through the ups and downs of life and the indifference of the world before making up their minds and finally stepping into the door of success.

2. perseverance

Speaking of this, it reminds me of a scientific experiment I saw many years ago: the purpose of this experiment is to study the adaptability of flea jumping. Researchers put fleas on the table. When they touch the table, fleas will jump immediately, and the jumping height is more than 100 times of their height, making them the highest jumping animals in the world! Then put a glass cover on the flea's head and let it jump; This time the flea hit the glass cover. After many times in a row, the flea changed its take-off altitude to adapt to the environment and kept it below the top of the hood every time. Next, gradually change the height of the glass cover. Fleas always change their height after hitting the wall. Finally, the glass clings to the table, and the flea can't jump any more. The scientist then opened the glass cover and knocked on the table again. Fleas still can't jump and become "crawling fleas". Flea has become a "crawling flea", not because it has lost the ability to jump, but because of repeated setbacks, it has been chastened, accustomed and numb. The saddest thing is that the actual glass cover no longer exists, but there is no courage to "try again". The glass cover has been covered in the subconscious and the mind. The desire and potential for action have been killed by themselves! In fact, many people have similar experiences. In the process of growing up, I suffered too many criticisms, blows and setbacks from the outside world, so my enthusiasm and desire for progress were suppressed by my "self" and I didn't get timely guidance and encouragement. I am not only afraid of failure, but also used to failure, lost confidence and courage, and gradually developed a mental outlook that I dare not struggle and make progress. In life, it also appears to drift with the tide, so the inherent flame of success goes out prematurely. This also gives us an inspiration: to succeed, it is not enough to have the courage not to be afraid of hitting the wall, but also to have the endurance and toughness not to be afraid of hitting the wall. That is, the perseverance of success.

3. Learn the method of success.

Everything should be measured and get twice the result with half the effort. The same is true of the exploration of the road to success. Everyone is eager to take fewer detours. When you can spend ten or twenty years or even a lifetime, you will slowly explore the road to success, but that is not the best way after all. The best way to succeed is to learn from successful people. There are many successful people around us, who may be business backbones, scientific research elites, enterprise presidents or government secrets. The qualities of many successful people can be reflected in the people we can reach. The so-called quality is the internal cause and foundation of successful people; The so-called reason is the external cause and conditions of successful people. Only by combining quality with reason can we succeed. We should combine our own quality with reason, find out the gap and improve ourselves. There is no "one size fits all" unified model for successful people. We can also rely on our own strengths, or on cleverness, or on invention, or on foresight, or on adaptability, or on courage and diligence, or on eloquence. In short, we must foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and look at our own talents to achieve success. In addition, the so-called successful people must have some necessary qualities, such as a positive attitude towards success, a strict concept of time and a tireless spirit of innovation. I don't think I need to elaborate on this. These are all necessary in the work and life of modern society.

The simplest method is the best method; The most direct action is the most effective action. China people don't lack success, what they lack is action, and the times call for action. For this reason, the simplest and most direct explanation of this book as Success in Action is that the pursuit of success is life, and life is the pursuit of success.

Any effective learning innovation follows the law of "mentality, goal, time management and action". At the same time, with the development of society, more and more people begin to pursue the highest level of demand-self-realization, so future education and learning will pay regular attention to the education and learning of "mentality". Pay attention to the education and learning of "action ability" and "seeking knowledge and innovation". What are you waiting for? Do it now, do it now. Say "this person, this time, this place" first!

Step on the steps of success and climb the stairs-mentality is the foundation of success, goal is the direction of success, time is the efficiency of success, method is the shortcut of success, perseverance is the driving force of success, action is the guarantee of success, and creation is the source of sustained success.

Finally, I want to say that success is not a point, but a complete life course composed of countless points. Therefore, there is still a long way to go in the future, whether it is those who have explored success, those who are eager for success or those who have already succeeded. We may not be able to control the length of this road, but we may be able to widen it. ...