1, how many excessive words and praises have not made you lose your self-knowledge, and the applause, hugs and praises of celebrities have not reduced your humility to art! Finally, my education was not in vain, and your twenty years of torture were not in vain! You can be strong, as long as you can be strong, I will rest assured for a lifetime!

I first praised my son's calm attitude towards honor in the face of success, and then reviewed My Education and Your Twenty Years of Torture and affirmed it. Finally, when it comes to "being strong", the meaning of "being strong" here is not to hold on to difficulties, but to hold on to success, not to be carried away by victory, and not to give up further pursuit because of temporary success.

I mentioned the destruction of feelings to you in my previous letter, just to make you regard these things as the ashes of your soul. Of course, when you look at them, you will feel a lot, but don't hurt yourself forever. But to have a heart of grief like an ancient battlefield.

This sentence is intended to illustrate the necessity of controlling emotions. For emotional trauma, we should "treat it as the ashes of the soul" and "treat it as an ancient battlefield." When hanging on the ancient battlefield, the fire and smoke were exhausted, leaving only ruins, and the Jin Ge iron horse and the flesh-and-blood fight were buried by the yellow sand of the years. There are only thousands of feelings left, desolate and calm, depressed and detached. We should treat the past like this.

3. Only when one dares to face up to reality, mistakes, rational analysis and thorough understanding can one not be eroded by memories. I believe you will learn this slowly and become stronger and stronger.

We can't escape from reality and need to face up to our mistakes. We should calmly analyze the cause and effect of things, draw lessons from them, and learn lessons, so as to be in an invincible position, not afraid of setbacks, not afraid of blows, and even not afraid of loneliness, and people will become strong.

Plan ahead, and I will definitely receive your letter in the new year. We are all waiting for presents.

A few simple explanations make the details of calculating time and waiting for letters full of feelings of life, which inadvertently reflects the father's deep concern for his son.

What a sacred and glorious mission it is to carry forward the immortal works of immortal masters and spread them to every corner of the earth!

"Carrying forward the immortal works of immortal masters" subtly implies that the artistic career that the son is engaged in is immortal; What a sacred and glorious mission unreservedly expresses the father's support and understanding for his son's career, as well as his joy and praise for his son's success.

6, the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grain; Too much rain will flood the crops.

It is closely related to the previous sentence "Don't make you nervous at high tide, and don't make you decadent at low tide", which vividly illustrates the necessity of controlling emotions by metaphor.

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Fu Lei's Family Letters

Letters from Fu Lei is a book reprinted by Tianjin Academy of Social Sciences Press in 2006. The writer is Fu Lei. Letters from Fu Lei was first published in 198 1. The publication of Fu Lei's Letters was a sensational cultural event at that time and sold well for more than 30 years. This is a letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and his daughter-in-law Milla from 1954 to 1966 in May, edited by his second son Fu Min.

These letters began in 1954 when Fu Cong left home to study in Poland, and ended in 1966 when Fu Lei and his wife committed suicide. Hundreds of letters in 12 years run through Fu Cong's growing experience from studying abroad and having a good time to getting married and having children, and also reflect Fu Lei's translation work, friends' communication and the ups and downs of Fu Lei's family fate. Fu Lei and his wife are very careful. Their son's letters were properly collected and the key contents were classified and copied into volumes.

Book Introduction

Our letter was lost in the "cultural revolution", when all the Fu family's possessions were copied, and our letter was not spared. One day more than ten years later, the Shanghai Conservatory of Music discovered some of Fu Lei's relics, including an exercise book wrapped in black paper, called "Excerpts from Conger's Letters". 1986, Fu Cong resolutely refused to publish these letters after learning about it, because he felt that his thoughts and words were too immature to compare with his father when he was young.

Therefore, the previous version of "Letters from Fu Lei" is often just a monologue of Fu Lei. We can only imagine or guess how Fu Cong responded to his father, which is a great pity.

In the letters from home, we can see that Fu Lei, who is extremely strict with his children's education at ordinary times, expressed his heartfelt feelings and deeply loved his son: "The day after you left, you wanted to write a letter for fear that you would be bored, that's all." But not a day goes by without thinking about you. "(1954)" You came back and left again; Many new jobs, new busyness and new changes are waiting for you, and you won't feel lonely; However, we calmed down and slowly returned to our monotonous life. Compared with the party and excitement in the past, it is inevitable to appear empty. " (1956) "My son became a friend. What else in the world can compare with this happiness! Although there will be a lot of separation between you and me in the future, I am at least warm in spirit and not lonely. "

In the letter, the Fu family discussed the depth and height of music art and literary creation. Fu Lei eased Fu Cong's emotional problems on the artistic road: "You said that there are always contradictions and happiness, but I believe that without contradictions, artists will not progress, evolve and go deep." (1955) also excitedly talked about the dramas and movies he just watched. "Chang Xiangyu's voice of nature is so beautiful, with a wide upper and lower range and good acting and writing skills." ( 1956)

These letters from home are even more sad and infectious because of the changes in the fate of the Fu Lei family in the tragedy of the times. In his last letter to his son, Fu Lei said with a heavy heart: "There are many difficulties in life. We must constantly transform ourselves and fight against all traditional, capitalist and non-Marxist ideas, feelings and customs. We must abandon all outlook on life and old social norms. " ( 1966)