? How to educate a disobedient girl at the age of 10?

1. Quiet

When a rebellious child is rebellious and disobedient, parents should not rush to stop or fight back against the child. They should keep silent first. You know, silence is a severe reprimand to children. As long as the child doesn't hurt others, including himself, parents let her vent for a while and give him enough time. You don't even need to reason with your child, because the rebellious child actually knows everything, and she just shows it to you on purpose. The calmer you are, the more boring she will be, and she won't rush out of her own small universe next time.

2. Don't always stimulate your child with a disappointed tone.

Sometimes children will do some rebellious behaviors, and parents will say something disappointed and put some labels on their children. For example, the child is a helpless bastard, a useless thing, disappointed in you and doesn't want you at all. These words may be parents' temporary anger, but they will hurt their children's hearts. Heart. Because children can't see their parents' true love, they only see their parents' negative emotions. Therefore, when the child is rebellious, you just need to accompany her and talk less. Because whatever you do and say at this time may be wrong.

3. Don't let go

Some parents let the girl's rebellion go unchecked, which is the so-called doting, and feel that it doesn't matter if the child vents. Such parents are actually more harmful to children, because 10-year-old girls can't tell what is right and wrong at this time and need parents to guide them. Parents should learn to communicate with their children and look for suitable opportunities. When the child is in a good mood and no outsiders are present, tell the child from the heart that the child can actually feel it.

4. Respect children and talk less about the tone of command.

Rebellious children are more sensitive. Parents can communicate with them more and use affirmative sentences when speaking, so that children can feel their parents' respect for them. For example, when children throw their toys all over the floor and are unwilling to tidy up their toys, we can directly say to them, "Baby, go and tidy up your toys." The effect is definitely much better than "Don't throw toys around"!