Is the educational environment of single-parent families really that embarrassing?
First, we need to know what a single-parent family is. The so-called single-parent family refers to a family composed of children and one of them, which is formed by factors such as divorce, the death of one spouse and the separation of husband and wife. Among all single-parent families, divorced single-parent families do the most harm to children. Now the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and many children face single-parent families. These children will be withdrawn and difficult to get along with. In education, people with different personalities need different teaching methods. For single-parent families, most children lack loving care, which leads to some weaknesses in their personality. Parents must set a correct direction for single-parent children and let them have a healthy growth mentality. Three misunderstandings in single-parent family education need to be cautious. What are the specific misunderstandings? Now let's look at Bian Xiao. One of the misunderstandings: too much love for children, many children in single-parent families, relatives around them will hurt their children mentally because of their parents' divorce, so they want to make up for it as much as possible. There is a limit to everything. The so-called compensation is not an unreasonable demand that always dotes on children, whether it is material or spiritual, but it should not be satisfied, because if children have this habit since childhood, they will get more when they grow up. Now you can afford it. He dotes on his children so much that there is nothing he can do when they grow up. He can learn to be independent and solve problems, and gradually he will form an arrogant and unwilling character and various bad shortcomings. Myth 2: Adding too much emotion to children Single parent family education needs different ways. Every parent faces divorce for some disharmonious reasons. Since you are divorced, don't bring some wrong opinions to your child's emotional understanding. Many people say that children who grow up in single-parent families have some genetic factors in their minds, which leads to their unique illusions. For example, a child in a single-parent family will always hear relatives or neighbors say: This child's parents are divorced, which is really pitiful. He must be very lacking in fatherly love or maternal love. In fact, many times, what others say will also be reflected in the children's hearts. I thought there was no burden, but it added more burden to these people's words. Myth 3: Don't let children see their parents. After divorce, the custody of children naturally has certain negotiation and distribution. After many couples divorce, one of them takes care of the children. The reason for their divorce must be a lot of friction in their lives. Therefore, parents who adopt children are willing to let each other have more contact with their children. In many cases, they have moved out of the city where they have lived for a long time in order to keep each other away from their children. In fact, this kind of single-parent family education is very unfavorable to the growth of children. Because no child wants complete fatherly love and maternal love, it is a pity to lose one. This is also one of the reasons why many children in single-parent families are withdrawn. We all need to have a good understanding of the three major misunderstandings of single-parent family education mentioned above. I hope that parents of single-parent families can face up to the education problems of single-parent families and adhere to certain principles in the education of their children, such as always facing their children's physical and mental problems with an open heart, and good communication and cooperation between parents and teachers, so that single-parent children can get more care in the process of growing up. Maybe when we do what we have to do, we become children. As the song goes: As long as everyone is willing to pay a little love, the world will become a beautiful world.