The first day he came was the first time I saw him. He is a lovely and naive little boy. Unlike other children, he cried badly. He's just wiping his tears. There is no sound. After a while, I went to comfort him. I said what's wrong with you. He told me that he missed his mother. Later, I often talked to him, and his mood gradually improved, but he was a very introverted little boy. I didn't play with other children, just sat there, looking out the window, looking at the children and the teacher, but he never took the initiative to find the children, just looked at them from a distance. Maybe he's embarrassed. It is such a little boy that caught my attention. I think he is a very strong and sensible little boy.
In the afternoon, all the children are playing in the corner of the area. He just stood there watching the children play. I said you should play with the children, too. He didn't respond and didn't walk over. Look how well the children are playing. Let's go there, too After my repeated persuasion, he passed, but he never went in. He just stood by and watched the children play. He always can't fit into this big group, but he's not very naughty. Show the children her innermost thoughts. Later, I found out the child's mind and knew how to coax. Children like to listen to good words and have their own temper. When you are angry, they will be angry, will resist, and will not follow your wishes. So teachers sometimes need to calm down and tell them. Don't swear angrily, even if some children may not understand or even be scared. We also need to communicate with them. Generally speaking, first of all, we should talk about many aspects of them, where they did well and where they didn't sit well enough. Now they are criticized by teachers. Will you be criticized by the teacher? They all shook their heads. No, children are children, and they don't understand many things, so we need to teach them slowly so that they can understand what the teacher said when they grow up. Now we can't ask too much of them. After all, they are children. It is not good to put pressure on them. What we want is to relax, grow in play, learn in play and make progress in play. Children don't quite know what is wrong and what is right. Every mistake needs the guidance of the teacher, teaching him what to do, and letting them ask themselves what they want to say and do. Don't focus on psychology, share your happiness and unhappiness with everyone and solve them together.
2020.9. 17
Liu