Tian Yulan, a mother, comes from a school with only three broken books. She deeply understands how much influence her education has on herself. This is also the reason why she wants her children to be admitted to key junior high schools and high schools. She wants her children to get ahead and not be looked down upon by others. For my own children, of course, but the children are still so young. Will they really understand? They will only think that the pressure exerted by their mothers is too great, which is unnecessary for them to bear, but as mothers, they seem to have never considered their children's feelings. When the child asks, he is particularly wronged and says, Am I not good enough for you? What do you want me to do？
In fact, children really don't need you to do anything. You relax and the children relax, which is a good result. Putting too much pressure on children will have a very negative impact on people's physical and mental health. For example, children in TV dramas will have hallucinations during exams, which is caused by too much pressure.
Mothers should reflect on their own problems at this time, instead of blaming their children blindly. If children can grow up in a more relaxed environment, it should also have a better impact on learning.
Nowadays, children are overburdened with homework. In fact, this does not make them concentrate on their studies. Instead, they just do their homework. This method of winning by quantity is sometimes feasible, but sometimes it can only achieve the opposite effect.
For the sake of children's physical and mental health, parents should choose a more suitable way when educating their children. Otherwise, children will be autistic, or you will never see your children again, because stressed children will choose zs! And this phenomenon is absolutely not uncommon.