I. Independence

There is such a thing abroad that caused quite a stir in the field of parenting at that time. A couple sued their 30-year-old son because he was too old, hoping that the court could help him and let the child stay away from himself and be self-reliant. Many netizens are full of surprises when they hear this, and there is such a thing. In fact, this matter is only reported abroad. According to this situation, there will be a phenomenon of gnawing at the old at home and abroad. What is the reason for this?

To sum up, parents should not spoil their children too much, but take care of them everywhere, which will make them lose their independence in life. In fact, in the current educational methods, such a situation generally exists. Excessive love will only make children dependent. I thought I could protect them, but I didn't know that I deprived them of all their abilities.

Such examples can be seen everywhere in life, and many relatives or friends will definitely have such a situation. Many parents actually know how to make their children independent, and they all know that if their children fall, they should encourage them to stand up by themselves. But what reason do parents have to educate their children like this when they know it is wrong?

Second, the rules

In many social news, there will be some bullies like Xiong Haizi or noisy parents' responses such as "He is still a child", which makes the rules in society completely equal to nothingness. This situation is also very common. Netizens have expressed their dissatisfaction, claiming that such people are immoral, but do they educate their children like this?

Good education of children to obey the rules must be the basis of action. In fact, cultivating awareness is to protect children from any harm and help them better adapt to society. For example, zebra crossing, loud noise in public places, queuing, etc., these small things, from an early age, cultivate and establish rules for children, clarify their own boundaries, and let children follow them from the heart, which has a great impact on their future.

Once the rules are established, we should stick to our own principles, set a good benchmark for children, help them complete this training, give full play to the correct way of educational rules, and make children become people who can adapt to and abide by social rules.

Third, responsibility.

Don't think that children's education is just learning. Why should there be ideological and moral lessons in primary schools? It is worth thinking about. Is there such a situation, "Mom, why don't you tidy up the homework I wrote yesterday?" Many parents don't pay special attention to the cultivation of children's sense of responsibility and help their children solve many troubles, but their children don't know what sense of responsibility is.

It is impossible for an irresponsible person to accomplish anything seriously. He will run if something happens, and he will back down if something happens. What will it be like after entering the society? In fact, in daily life, we can cultivate children's sense of responsibility by participating in housework, let children help them complete the corresponding housework and share their strength with their families, so that children will also have psychological satisfaction.