Parents need proper self-confidence in the process of getting along with their children, and don't be conceited, so that children can learn to be "neither arrogant nor impetuous". In other words, if parents know who they are, what kind of abilities they have, good health, self-evaluation and can handle relationships well, then there is no need to worry about whether their children will become arrogant.
Therefore, if children want to be "neither arrogant nor impetuous", they should be encouraged to use objective language to "I saw" their specific behaviors and processes. . . . "express it, for example, if the child shows you a picture, don't worry: you are great! Instead, use encouragement: I saw you draw the sun, red grass and three children in green in blue. It looks rich and bright, and you are very imaginative.
If you want your child to be "not dry", parents should learn to express their emotions in an appropriate way instead of yelling at their children. Think about it, it is normal for children to be "dry" under the action of mirror neurons in the human brain. Parents can learn more ways to calm themselves down as soon as possible when their emotions are intense, such as taking a deep breath or drinking some water and counting to ten, as long as it makes you feel better. Tell your child your feelings and emotions in specific language: I feel very uneasy. I'm worried that watching TV all the time will hurt your eyes. I think we can find a way to plan our time watching TV together. If children want to love life, parents should live in the present, enjoy everything that happens in every place and experience it with heart. Creating a comfortable family environment, being close to nature, sharing each other's feelings and listening to each other's needs are what children need.