Children are parents' teachers. What should we do well on the road of education? Children should not worry about becoming geniuses. In a blink of an eye, my daughter 10 is old, and children's education is more and more on the agenda. I can feel the anxiety of my parents around me. I began to worry, too, and inadvertently went to China's parents' spiritual path, becoming a person I looked down upon very much in the past. Looking back on the past years, I may never be ready to be a parent because I have always resisted being a parent. After children break into daily life, they still have no awareness of culture and education, neither prenatal education nor parent-child early education. When my daughter goes to kindergarten, my greatest expectation is that the teacher will be more careful with the child, so that she can eat well and have a big place to play, so that she can play at will.

At the beginning, I had a sense of culture and education, and my daughter helped me with my enlightenment education. That was when she was about 2 years old. One day, I forgot what she was doing. I was busy with what I was doing and learned that I was "not sensible". She said casually, "I don't like you." I was like a sap, very surprised. That's the most fluent sentence she has said so far. I immediately realized the child's "learning and training" level.

"I'm not sensible, I don't like you." Isn't that my high-frequency vocabulary and spoken English at home? Mother and daughter have long been so tacit. I said the last sentence like touching the start button, and her automation technology came up with the next sentence. What the child said at that moment deeply touched me. I'm really scared. I already know that children are good at imitating, but my personal experience is quite different. She must have imitated my daily behavior, but I didn't notice it. On my good side, I naturally want her to learn. She already knows all my problems and bad habits. what can I do? Is it my good side? My bad side, I didn't realize that my children were near Zhu Zhechi ... I kept questioning myself, and the more I watched it, the more scared I became.

Since then, being alone at home, especially in front of children, has made the original casual birthday a lot more flexible. I will always remind her father of his improper behavior and naturally let him supervise me. After the child went to kindergarten, I realized that I could no longer keep her as a kitten and puppy. Although she is young, she is an individual with independent thinking and consciousness. And he is digesting and absorbing all the information of the surrounding environment all the time, making his own life login password. All her joys and sorrows are the export and expression of her inner feelings. I gradually paid attention to understand her young mind.

She made a mistake before going to kindergarten. I blamed her for "being wrong should be ...". She was secretly sad and suddenly looked up and asked, "Mom, are you wrong?" At that moment, the child's confused and immature face, like a sudden paper, gave me great shock, confusion and panic. Calm down and think about it carefully. I really feel sorry for her and all the children. Yes, parents' criticisms of their children are not all appropriate. 100%. It may be a misjudgment or an improper method. The consequences of adults' mistakes need to be borne by a child.

He is still so young, the level of language use is not enough to describe his inner thoughts, students' grievances and sorrows, and it is difficult to resort to precise words to explain the argument, so he can only choke and be angry. But children's tears and anger are often ignored or treated as fun by adults. Because adults have been involuntarily fulfilling their true identity rights in front of their children, they often subconsciously become arrogant. Very little self-reflection.