Establish clear rules and boundaries: Make sure there are clear rules and boundaries at home, and explain the importance of these rules to children. Let children know which behaviors are acceptable and which are unacceptable.
Give positive incentives and rewards: praise and reward children's good behavior, so that they are more motivated to obey the rules and obey orders.
Lead by example: Parents are the most important role models for children. Demonstrate positive values and codes of conduct through your own behavior.
Establish good communication: keep good communication with children and listen to their thoughts and feelings. This can help them understand their behavior and find a better expression.
Use positive discipline: avoid using corporal punishment or rude methods to correct children's bad behavior. Instead, take active disciplinary measures, such as temporarily depriving certain privileges or setting appropriate time limits.
Cultivate a sense of responsibility: let children participate in housework or other tasks, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and self-management ability.
Seek professional help: If the child's disobedience persists and seriously affects daily life, you can consider seeking professional psychological counseling or family therapy.
The most important thing is to persist in education patiently. Every child is unique, and they need time to adapt and learn the correct behavior. Care, understanding and guidance are the keys to help children move in the right direction.