Therefore, from this perspective, the starting point is the end point. Because when you are walking, others may be running, and when you are running, others may have got on the bus.
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How to be an excellent high school parent?
0 1 Become a parent who loves learning and thinking.
Children need different parents at different times. If you are still the parents of junior high school students or even primary school students, there is no doubt that you are holding back senior high school students.
When children grow up, they have less shallow needs for their parents and more deep needs for their parents. With the deterioration of people's learning ability, it is often that our parents' wisdom cannot grow faster than our children's.
Therefore, after parents are busy with work during the day, after children fall asleep, in the dead of night, we should study hard, think hard, analyze children's every move, and deal with all kinds of problems.
Every communication with children should be carefully prepared, just like a teacher preparing lessons. Just talk about one topic at a time and don't turn over old scores.
Mo Yan said:
I admire children who rebel against their parents, because I think the first child who dares to raise the banner of rebellion must be a hero in troubled times or a hero who manages the world.
To lead a thoughtful and rebellious intelligent child to the right path, there must be a premise: parents must have considerable quality. Therefore, our parents should study hard.
A symbol of success in family education.
Children tell their parents everything.
For example: children have the idea of puppy love in their hearts; In fact, as long as children can speak their minds, you will have corresponding countermeasures, so that children will not have problems;
Now many situations are:
Children don't tell their parents what they think. If no one else says or makes bad friends by mistake, there will often be problems of one kind or another! Adhere to the truth, once the diaphragm is formed, it will be the biggest obstacle to children's growth;
Therefore, when children have psychological words and don't tell you, you should wake up and reflect.
The most effective means of family education
Communicate, praise, punish appropriately, be strict and moderate, and let children do housework.
The biggest difficulty for parents to educate their children nowadays:
It's not that the conditions are poor, it's not that you have no education, but that you don't understand children at all. I don't know the cause, how to prescribe the right medicine?
And children don't know the root cause is:
Children are not treated with respect and equality, and there is no real communication. Communication is the most effective means to educate children;
Good boy likes to brag. What children need most is not material things, but true love. Spoiling is neither love nor harm. Bad kids are used to it. Now many parents say that they can't control their children. Why can't they?
Because I've been spoiled since I was a child! Indulge children like killing them. What should we do now? Communicate, communicate with children equally, and communicate with children calmly.
Good communication has a great relationship with parent-child relationship, and the best model of parent-child relationship-friend relationship.
How to treat children's grades?
Intelligence is not the most important thing, what is more important than intelligence is will, and what is more important than will is morality.
Therefore, you can't look down on your child, give up your child, or scold your child because your grades have been bad. What if I don't do well in the exam? Do not beat and scold, calmly communicate with children, find reasons, think of measures and set goals.
We should establish the concept that progress is success. As long as there is progress, praise and encourage children. Academically, don't always demand your children by the standards of top students or the excellent achievements of other children.
Parents should pay attention to cultivate their children's study habits, such as:
1. The habit of previewing, reviewing, taking notes, keeping a diary, reflecting on exams and reading;
2. Having good study habits means having good learning ability, which means success and happiness;
Habit determines fate, and good habits will create a successful and happy future.
Correctly treat the school's criticism and punishment of children
We call mobile phones, puppy love and surfing the Internet the three deadly killers that affect the learning and growth of senior high school students. It is definitely not an exaggeration. Education without punishment is irresponsible education, and teachers who do not criticize students are irresponsible teachers!
Don't use all kinds of social relations excuses to punish children's mistakes, which will only harm children; Let children have awe of the "rules"! The fundamental reason why many children commit crimes is that they have no fear in their hearts. I'm not afraid of anything. Why not? Because of the support of parents.
Some parents don't quite understand and don't cooperate with the school or the class teacher to find parents. They think it's important to say something in class, play with a mobile phone, sleep and have a meal.
Education is no small matter, everything is education. Children's problems are never small problems. If left unchecked, the consequences will be unimaginable. Many good children are hated for making big mistakes because they don't care about small problems.
In short, children's education cannot be achieved overnight, nor can it be done once and for all. Only when parents grow up can they guide their children to a better path.
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