"Walk Left and Stand Right" and "Left and Right" Education

-Read "Left hand loves right hand to discipline-good parents should know how to discipline in love"

I have read "Left hand loves right hand to discipline-good parents should know how to discipline in love" and Rousseau's "If you want your child to be an unfortunate person, then obey him". This sentence has been lingering in my heart for a long time: children can't just care about pain, and giving children freedom doesn't mean letting themselves go.

I remember the book that Xiao Lei's mother just appreciates and educates her children blindly, and the children gradually only listen to compliments and praises, but don't listen to anything that is slightly unpleasant, and often make a fuss. Appreciation and punishment should be the wings of education. Education with appreciation without punishment is irresponsible education, or at least incomplete education. In order to make a small tree grow into a towering tree, it is necessary to correct the branches of the small tree in time and cut off the redundant branches in time.

We all know that "walk left and stand right" is an area with little traffic. It is a habit to take the escalator and stand on the right when the traffic is low, leaving room for passengers on the road to walk on the left. In recent years, some parts of our country no longer advocate "going left and standing right" for security reasons. Because "walking left and standing right" leads to uneven stress on the escalator, the escalator frequently breaks down. In fact, it is safer to go up and down the escalator, and try to avoid walking ... The phenomenon of "walking left and standing right" in current education is also very common.

"Walk left and stand right"-difficult, about teachers.

The Teachers Law stipulates that teachers can't corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form, which is an important manifestation of respecting students' personality. There is nothing wrong with the regulation, but the parents who "failed to raise and teach" brought this regulation to the realm of "going left and standing right".

"The teaching is not strict and the teacher is lazy." Education should be punitive. But now when something happens to a student, the first thing is the teacher's responsibility. Not strict with students is to let yourself go; If students are severely disciplined, they are said to be disrespectful. The phenomenon of "teacher trapped in the toilet" makes the teacher understand that swimming in the river often will definitely drown.

"It's your father's fault that you don't teach." Now some Xiong Haizi are fearless and impulsive. Parents love their children unprincipled, and even hope that teachers will indulge their children like him. Once criticized, he already thought the teacher "had a hard time with him." Teachers have almost lost the power and ability to discipline students. No parent or teacher can control children for a long time.

The stick was lost, and so was Master Yan. Parents don't manage their children, and they don't give teachers the power to manage their children, so teachers "do good deeds" all the way to get their children out of happy schools and into cruel society. Whether children study well or not is beyond the control of teachers. Parents give money to run various remedial classes, and now more and more children make up classes. The State issued the Notice on Effectively Reducing the Extra-curricular Burden of Primary and Secondary School Students and Carrying out the Special Governance Action of Off-campus Training Institutions. However, some training courses have been completely changed and are still enrolling students. I don't know if it will be "overkill" and make the burden on children heavier.

"The ruler was invited to the primary school classroom, which caused a heated discussion." There is a war of words between the pros and cons: some people object that "not every teacher can control his strength." I am afraid that my child will be hurt too much. " Children shuttle through various cram schools, and the time spent with their parents is greatly reduced, not to mention "left-behind children". What parents call "for children" ignores Lide's education. There is no education without love, and there is no education without punishment. The lack of social education and family education needs to be solved urgently.

"Walk left and stand right"-bullying, controlling the campus.

The 4.27 meter fat hacking incident is shocking. The victim's motive was being bullied at school in those days, and now he wants revenge. School bullying became the fuse of his hacking, and then the distortion of depression was the source of tragedy. The "one size fits all" "protection" mode of criminal law in terms of the age of criminal responsibility condones some minors' crimes.

Being bullied by classmates, neither the school nor the law can effectively solve this problem, which has a great negative effect on children with developing psychology. They are afraid of going to school, because they may be teased endlessly at any time, or even punched. Children are psychologically distorted in the helplessness of their parents, causing depression ... The Law on the Protection of Minors is to protect these young adults (bullies) from growing up wantonly.

Some people say that the kindest and most ignorant law in China is the Law on the Protection of Minors. The "overkill" law on the protection of minors has long been out of date, and now minors are not vulnerable groups!

"Walk left and stand right" is a civilized behavior, but "stand firm on the escalator and don't walk around at will" is the foundation of safety. Education needs the cooperation of society, schools and families in order to give full play to the superimposed educational effect.

"Left-handed love, right-handed discipline", in order to make children really grow into talents, parents need to take the responsibility of guidance and pruning. Let children grow up in love and become talents in love!