When the child stood in the living room and asked hopefully, "Mom, I want to drink milk." You can't satisfy him for a while by cooking in the kitchen. Tell him the specific time: "Mom will steam the rice for you, ok?" Often ignoring the baby's needs will make him lose confidence because he is not taken seriously.

Give children the opportunity to choose for themselves.

Take the child out for a trip on weekends and ask for his advice. If you already have a goal, you can adopt another method. For example, if you ask "Do you want to go to the zoo or the museum", give him a choice and let him make his own choice, which will increase his confidence in himself.

Don't laugh at children.

If a child just learns to speak, you teach him "big watermelon", but he says "catch the west". Don't laugh at him, and don't emphasize it at that time. Teach him next time. During the child's language learning period, your ridicule will make him lose confidence and interest in learning a language.

4 Take children's questions seriously

When children ask questions, you should listen patiently. If you can't answer, just tell him the truth. Mom doesn't know. Let's look it up in the dictionary or in other ways. Never answer according to your own ideas. Let him know what no one can do, dispel his awe of others, and thus increase his self-confidence.

Let children feel that they are needed.

Let the children do what they can in a consultative tone, such as "please take the newspaper to mom, ok?" Letting children know that they are needed is the best way to improve their self-confidence

6 Show children's works at home

Let children put their graffiti on the most eye-catching wall at home; Make a display stand for children on the cupboard to show his small works. A sense of honor can best stimulate a child's self-confidence.

Give the children a piece of their own territory.

Give your child a room. If there are no conditions, you can give him some rooms, so that he can have a small world where he can play freely and is not bound. Because he has his own "territory", his heart is full of pride, which will increase his confidence.

Mother's tolerance is the soil to cultivate children's self-confidence

Don't always blame the child for the mess in the room or on the desktop, but teach him to pick up the scattered toys and do it with him. Mother's tolerance is the soil to cultivate children's self-confidence.

Don't compare children with other children.

Don't say to your child, "My sister can count, but you can't. You are so stupid! " "Even if he is really worse than other children. Always compare children who are better than him with him, which can defeat children's self-confidence best.

10 Let the children make decisions occasionally.

Take the child to the supermarket, give him the money to be paid and ask him to give it to the cashier. He can't settle accounts yet, but at least let him know that money can buy things. Gradually letting children master their own pocket money and let him be the master will increase his self-confidence in life.

1 1 Let the children choose their own clothes.

Buy clothes for children and let them choose their own colors and styles. Maybe you don't like the color he chose, but don't deny his eyes. Being respected for a child's opinion is the beginning of his confidence.

12 get along and communicate with children equally.

Watch his favorite cartoons with children, discuss his favorite characters and lines with him, and show interest in his views. Equal coexistence and communication are the steps to give him confidence.

Let children do what they can.

Let children wash small socks and handkerchiefs independently, even if they can't. The child's self-confidence comes from your recognition of him in every little thing.

Encourage children to develop their special skills.

When the child is performing reciting poems, telling stories and singing, hit him to show that he wants to be with him. Cultivating him to dare to perform on stage calmly is to cultivate his self-confidence (it depends on age)

15 Let children play more with their peers.

Let children get close to strange children and actively encourage them to communicate freely with people of all ages. Cultivating his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence.

16 Help children make plans and remind them to implement them.

For example, help your child make a reading plan and negotiate with him when making a plan. Remind him during the execution, "Baby, should we study now?" Let him get into the habit of doing things according to the plan. Do things with confidence, and you can be confident.

17 Don't stop him from exploring what he is interested in.

Don't stop children from fiddling with coke bottles, shoe boxes and other wastes at will. Children like to explore things that interest them. If you stop his interest, it will dampen his confidence in exploration.

18 Help children develop positive aspects of their personality.

Help the child develop the positive aspects of personality and make him a person with personality. If the child is impatient, exercise his speed of doing things; If you are a slow learner, exercise his organization. Forcing him to change his nature will make you lose confidence in him and make him lose confidence.

19 taught him to recognize faces from an early age.

For example, tell him that although he doesn't have big eyes, small eyes look good as long as there is a god. A lot of self-distrust often stems from the disapproval of one's appearance.

Try to let children get rid of dependence in life.

Go to kindergarten on time and try to wake him up with an alarm clock instead of his mother calling him again and again. Can take care of their children, in the absence of dependence, but also full of confidence.

2 1 Get along and communicate with children on an equal footing.

When traveling with your child, tell him about the animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge you meet. Knowing more can make you more confident. (Knowledge is also important)

When the child encounters setbacks, help him analyze.

When a child encounters setbacks, analyze the experience with him in a relaxed tone, so that he won't make the same mistake next time. It is particularly important to regain his confidence.

When you encounter difficulties in playing games, encourage your children to solve them themselves.

Children encounter difficulties in jigsaw puzzles, and they should be encouraged to find ways to solve them themselves. When you really can't figure out a way, you can give directions from the side. Overcoming difficulties can make him more confident.

Give specific praise when children make progress.

When you get along with your child, you should always look for specific reasons worthy of praise and encourage him with praise language, but don't praise your child empty. It can be said: "The baby knows that he has peed and has made progress." Don't say, "Baby, you are so smart. Mom likes you so much. " Specific praise makes him confident, while empty praise makes him arrogant.

Pay attention to your promise to your children.

I didn't want to take him to McDonald's at first, but I promised him to go casually, but it didn't come true. Your dishonesty made him lose confidence and trust in you.

Support children's dreams.

Provide children with books and materials to support them to do what they dream of doing. Let the child realize his talent and ability, and he will be more confident.

There is no need to punish children's mistakes by beating and cursing.

Beating and cursing not only hurts children's self-confidence, but also makes them rebellious.

Parents strive to be respectable people.

Parents are respected in society, which can greatly increase children's self-confidence. Parents should follow reasonable standards of behavior and strive to be respected people.