1, the child's performance in school may be bad. Under normal circumstances, the teacher will not contact the parents easily and ask them to take care of the child, indicating that the child may have finished his homework recently, the state of class and bad habits, and the development of good habits of the child requires home-school co-education.
Parents are the legal guardians of children from the moment they are born. Parents have the responsibility and right to take care of their children, and family education is very important for a person's growth and success, which is accompanied by a child's life.
Suhomlinski once said: "The effect of education depends on the consistency of the influence of school and family education. Without this consistency, the education and teaching process of the school will collapse like a paper house. "
Because my job is about education, I know more about the importance of home-school cooperative education. Many times, parents may complain that teachers always ask me to take care of children, which is not the responsibility of teachers, but in fact, most teachers will take care of children, but if they think so, teachers will assign homework at school and students will do nothing the next day, once or twice, because they can call their children to the office alone to make up for it, but in the long run, children will only owe more and more. Parents can't guarantee the consistency of home and school education regardless of their children. Performance at school is another story. Children are naturally prone to problems in study or body and mind, so teachers will ask parents to take care of their children.
From the perspective of legal responsibilities and rights, children and parents have a natural blood relationship, which is irreplaceable by schools and teachers. Therefore, every family guardian should have the responsibility to educate children. So don't say that the teacher asked you to take care of the children, because this is the responsibility that every parent should bear.
Good family education is a powerful guarantee for children to become talents and a good recipe for maintaining social harmony and stability. Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of parents. The first education children receive comes from their parents and families. Good family education is very important for their growth.
Modern research shows that family factors account for 75% of children's growth and study, school education only accounts for 20%, and the rest are social factors and environmental factors accounting for 5%. But now some parents have the opposite understanding. They impose the responsibility of children's learning and growth on the school, ignoring the existence of the school. They think that their level is fully qualified for their children's education and teaching tasks, but they just do nothing and complain and blame blindly. This is the beginning of mediocrity and the necessity of creating mediocrity education.
How should parents correctly cooperate with school education?
First, raise the awareness of guardianship and perform supervisory duties. Pay more attention to children. For primary school students, you can check your homework and communicate with your children.
Second, understand the requirements of the school for students and communicate with the class teacher. There are many rules and regulations for the cultivation of students, and there are many requirements for students, such as: preview before class, choose courses, and finish class; Behavioral habits require wearing school uniforms into the campus, not allowing mobile phones into the classroom, not bringing snacks into the school, and keeping a civilized distance between boys and girls.
Third, pay attention to maintaining the prestige of teachers. First of all, understand the children's evaluation of the teacher, whether the children like the teacher, whether they like the teacher's lecture style and so on. Parents believe in their teachers, tap the teacher's bright spots, guide children to like their own teachers, let children see the advantages of teachers, enlarge the advantages of teachers and then enlarge them, and narrow their shortcomings. Teachers are people, not gods. It's normal to have shortcomings. Don't judge the teacher indiscriminately.
Fourth, build a bridge between home and school, and communicate with teachers by telephone and WeChat. Some parents are afraid that the teacher is busy and embarrassed to find a teacher. But teachers have to face dozens of students. If you don't contact the teacher, how can the teacher have so much time and energy to contact you? When the teacher "invites" you to school, parents, children and teachers are too passive.
Take good care of your children!