Nagging cuts away the child's patience and sunshine, and brings irritability to the child!
The second knife: comparison
Compare, cut off children's self-confidence and force children to feel inferior!
The third knife: hit
Beat, directly destroy, destroy, smash the child's self-esteem and force the child to give up!
The fourth knife: ignore
Ignore, directly cut off the child's sense of security, let the child close his heart and bring his inner fear!
The fifth knife: doubt
Doubt cuts off the child's hope for the future and brings despair and disappointment to the child!
The sixth knife: satire
Ironically, it cuts off the kindness and innocence of children and pushes them to hypocrisy!
The seventh knife: spoil
Spoiled, cut off the child's ability and modesty, forcing the child to be arrogant, arrogant and confused!
There are three kinds of education in life: family education, school education and social education.
For a child, the most important thing is family education in the early life. Family is the harbor and starting point of successful children. Parents are successful mentors and assistants for children. They are not only responsible for their physical development, but also can't ignore their psychological development. We should not only pay attention to children's intellectual development, but also pay attention to the cultivation of children's abilities in all aspects; Children should be taught not only to learn knowledge, but also to learn to be human.
It is the responsibility and obligation of parents to teach their children to be useful people. Parents must understand the mystery of education and find suitable educational methods for their children in order to explore their unlimited potential.
Some schools claim that they are not responsible for the incident of primary school students jumping off buildings at home. Legally speaking, yes. At this time, parents should give in.
There are contradictions between schools and children, and many parents' uncompromising power thoughts are arrogant and conflict with the requirements of schools.
The incident of primary school students jumping off a building, one is the mobile phone, the other is the competition at the starting line, and the other is related to the rebellious period. At this time, parents should be the buffer zone between children and schools.
About ten years old, I don't know what I'm worried about Why did I come this far? What drove our students to the wall?
This is achievement, dignity and ideal ... no, these are not the most important. In fact, the most important thing is that the above seven knives have driven the child to a dead end.