Middle school students' thoughts are not fixed, so they can't think deeply about these complicated factors scientifically, and they can't really know whether they are really consistent in these aspects. This paper will help middle school students treat puppy love correctly from four aspects: guiding boys and girls to communicate correctly, respecting and caring, rational understanding and rule restraint.

Guide boys and girls to communicate properly.

Puppy love among middle school students is like a ship sailing into the sea. Without a compass and rudder, it hides the danger of hitting the rocks and sinking at any time. Therefore, the puppy love of middle school students not only has a very low success rate, but also a weak will may be cast into a lifelong crime.

Respect and care, and actively guide

Puppy love students should never be discriminated against. We should understand and respect their feelings, win their trust on the basis of understanding, approach them with caring attitude and help them.

Understand with reason and restrain with rules.

The head teacher should be the guide of students' life path, and help them to deal with the problems related to their life happiness with an equal attitude as friends and "advisers".

Love education

Love education is not only an active and effective way to face puppy love, but also more and deeper education. Not to teach children how to love, but to teach them how to have this beautiful feeling in the world and get a happy life in the process of being a man.