At the end of the senior high school entrance examination, I was fortunate to attend the lecture of Professor Tian Hengping on "Cultivating Core Literacy and Enhancing Key Competence". Professor Tian Hengping's lecture is lively and humorous. With his rich experience, he won the audience's continuous laughter and applause in popular and humorous language, but it made everyone think deeply in laughter.
I graduated from college for four years and worked as a class teacher for four years. For four years, I have been groping constantly, and every day, I have staged a story of fighting with students and loving each other. There have been countless rampages, crazy collapses, and countless happiness touches and happiness satisfaction. Combined with my own experience and the content of Professor Hotan's lecture, talk about my feelings:
First, education is a slow art.
Professor Tian told the story of studying with children from 7: 30 to 9: 30 in the evening. The children are doing their homework, while Professor Tian is reading and writing. From 9: 30 to 9: 30, even if the child has not finished his homework, he must go to bed, because 9: 30 is the time for the child to go to bed. Then when the teacher looked for parents the next day, Professor Tian still insisted that it was my responsibility as a father to let the children go to bed at 9: 30. What should your teacher do? We should do our own thing. Hearing this, I thought it was the kind of practice circulating on the Internet that parents put their children's health before their homework, but Professor Tian said slowly-it took me more than four months to make my children understand that homework should be finished before 9: 30! Education will not happen overnight. Hearing this, I really can't help but sigh: wonderful! That's great!
As class teachers, are we sometimes too anxious about many situations of students? Professor Tian compares our moral educators to the Monkey King in The Journey to the West. We are responsible for fighting monsters. Professor Tian vividly said-those students don't make trouble, don't fight and make mistakes, don't fall in love and skip classes ... what do you want from these moral educators? Yes, we should exist to solve the problems in the process of children's growth, rather than complaining a lot when children have problems. Children can't grow up overnight, children can't grow up at once, monsters can't be killed by the Monkey King, and we can't have a fast track for children's education.
Among the third-grade children I just said goodbye to, one of them was always making things difficult, narrow-minded and haggle over every ounce, and didn't get along with the students in the dormitory, throwing water on their beds; Writing dirty words and swearing in classmates' exercise books, stealing other people's pens and notebooks; Stealing classmates' snacks and milk in the dormitory; I was disgusted with the teacher, so I deliberately deducted the class civilization points ... I was really overwhelmed by such children at first, and I tried to solve it quickly in a very impatient way. As a result, it backfired and the child was even worse. After thinking about it, I might as well take my time and pay attention to methods and strategies. Professor Tian also said that "tactical diligence can't make up for the strategic shortcomings" and "done, done right, done". My understanding is that to educate children, we should not only "do" but also "do right" in order to "do right". Later, I began to try to talk to children slowly, write letters, guide positive class public opinion, and let parents accompany their children to psychological counseling to understand the root causes behind these problems. Slowly, the child's situation has greatly improved, and some students in the class are willing to make friends with him. Children find the recognition of their classmates in the class and gradually find their own existence value, so they will not be naughty easily again. It took the child more than two years to grow up, from being hostile to everyone to being integrated with everyone. When children gradually become polite and sensible, my heart is full of a sense of accomplishment. "Education cannot be achieved overnight. Education is a slow art ".
Second, self-growth cannot be achieved overnight.
When talking about a large number of people who "entered" his school, Professor Tian said that he was not because of how noble and great he was, but because he had a firm belief in his heart-"People can have shortcomings, but they can't be tainted, and they can never be a stain in their daughter's life". My personal understanding is that this is a person's belief. When a person has faith, he will have a heart of awe and a clear bottom line for the world. With the rapid development of today's society, the pace of people's running is accelerating. Many people's hearts are constantly expanding in the process of pursuing fame and fortune. Runners forget their original intention and cross their bottom line again and again. The success of Tang Priest's team is due to their strong and firm belief of "going west, going west, going all the way west". No matter what kind of monster you encounter, you will not shake this belief. Song Jiang's 108 Heroes team finally failed, all under the banner of "doing good for heaven" from beginning to end, and never believed in themselves. As a young teacher, I think we should always keep a humanistic feeling and always keep in mind the essence of education. Do not forget your initiative mind, it is possible to talk about career development, and self-growth has the seeds to take root and sprout.
Professor Tian's second point is that people must live a quiet life. The reason why he can get out of the mire in a "bad" environment is because he has always lived like this. He said that we should divide the time of life into three thirds, in short, divide a day into three eight hours. The first eight hours are reserved for my career, the second eight hours for my relatives and the third eight hours for myself. Do a good job of eight hours, teach books and educate students; The second eight hours are reserved for relatives, visiting parents regularly, accompanying children, and walking with his wife at night; The third eight hours are reserved for myself. Running keeps me healthy, reading books enriches my knowledge and writing articles to output my thoughts. When all this is done, what you want will come naturally. Tao Te Ching said: "It is the sage who stays behind first, but lives outside. Not because of its selflessness? Therefore, it can be private. " It is precisely because there is no selfishness that I have achieved my own selfishness. My understanding is that in the process of pursuing self-growth, we should put aside other thoughts and be ourselves. On the contrary, everything I should have will eventually be there. Once, I was also eager to grow up. I swallowed a lot of books, only to find that many books suitable for others may not be suitable for me. I lack some life experience and thinking, but it is very difficult to read. I completely forgot that the growth of students still needs to be gradual. In fact, so does the growth of individuals. In fact, take every step, why worry about the future?
I have been a teacher for four years, and I have been fighting in the front line of moral education. It took me a long time to find the balance and happiness between myself and my work, and I also gained a lot of touch and happiness from fighting with students. After fully taking care of their first class students, the students couldn't help crying on the day they left school. "As a class teacher, it is very happy to see students become mature, polite, independent and strong when they leave." There is still a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, but I hope I can be a happy class teacher forever. Don't forget your innovative spirit. I hope I can keep an educational heart of seeking knowledge. Teachers, the so-called preaching and giving lessons to solve doubts, but I prefer to grow up calmly with students from one session to another. I hope that after Qian Fan, I am still myself. "Everything is possible only by living high and quality".