For us post-80s, post-90s and post-00s, most of us grew up in one-child families. Many people think that we children who grew up in one-child families are lonely because they have no brothers or sisters, but many people think that we are relatively happy because we can get 65,438+000% love from our parents, but very often, for some only children, they get it.

Because for many children who grew up in one-child families, although they can get meticulous care and satisfaction from their parents materially, parents often pour all their love into themselves, but for many one-child families, they often encounter certain difficulties in the process of growing up, that is, parents often expect too much of themselves. As the saying goes, they are eager to make their children successful and their daughters successful. For them, it often has great influence and pressure. For example, these children will be allowed to study as hard as possible, and many learning contents may not be liked by these only children, but they will still be forced to study. Although it is a kind of 100% love for these parents, it is too heavy for children.

On the other hand, for many parents, children are only children, so they will give their children 100% love, but this 100% love will also become a kind of doting on their children to a great extent, making mistakes, and parents are unwilling to criticize education, but they don't realize that this kind of love is not conducive to their growth. On the contrary, it will cause many problems for their children in the later growth process, and even such education methods will cause harm to children. Therefore, for the only child, it is a good thing to get the love of parents 100%, but for parents, they should also find the really correct way to educate their children and love them with the right attitude, so as to be truly responsible for their children.