1, teach children to learn to be independent
Independence is one of the manifestations of healthy personality, which has a very important influence on children's adult life, learning quality, career success and family life. Accurately speaking, children can begin to cultivate independence at about one year old. Only when children learn to take care of themselves can they face all kinds of problems in life independently and succeed easily when they grow up. If you indulge them blindly, you will only harm the children, not love them.
2, teach children not to be afraid of falling, setbacks will make you grow happier.
Nowadays, we are faced with a world full of competition and a society where the fittest survive. Untrained wings will be difficult to resist the storm of life; The flowers and plants cultivated in the greenhouse can't stand the heat and cold, and the swallows under the eaves can't stand the storm. Parents can't always be safe havens for their children. Appropriate frustration education can promote the development of children's non-intellectual factors such as emotion, will and personality. Besides, parents should let their children do those simple tasks. Don't deprive children of the opportunity to exercise in these things, and at the same time don't need too much attention and praise. In this way, educated children can easily have a bright future when they grow up.
3. Cultivate children's learning and social skills.
Cultivating children's social skills is a compulsory course for children to go to society. A child who can't adapt to social interaction will eventually be unable to gain a foothold in society. In fact, as long as parents pay attention to cultivating some details in their children's lives, such as self-confidence, smiling, making friends and self-expression. Children's social skills can be improved slowly. In addition, children should be encouraged to be "leaders", so that they can be confident, good at "selling themselves" and showing themselves. Such children will have more prospects when they grow up.