Encouraging and Criticizing Writing 1 An American psychologist once did an experiment: he divided his students into three groups and treated them with three attitudes. The results show that the first group that was praised and encouraged made the fastest progress, while the third group that was criticized made a little progress, while the second group that did not ask for it almost stagnated.
After reading the above materials, do you have any ideas? Let's compare the results of the first group and the third group to see what the teachers' educational attitudes are different.
In some people's minds, it seems that children can't be appreciated, and they think it will make them proud. As the saying goes, "forget your last name", they think that children should be criticized more, which will make them feel nervous and promote their progress. But what is the truth? On the contrary, the progress of the first group is far greater than that of the third group. Facts speak louder than words, and moderate appreciation and encouragement play a much higher role in the progress of cadres than criticism.
After reading the above conclusion, some people may wonder: Why? This is illogical! Ok, let's look at it from the beginning. It is true that some people may be on pins and needles when criticized, and their self-esteem urges them to make efforts to correct and improve, which may make great progress. But after all, only a few people, most people will have resistance or even negative thoughts because of criticism, which will not help progress, but will "break the jar." We might as well assume that when you get good grades through hard work and get the appreciation of your parents when you go home, the first sentence you hear is: "Why do you still have so many small mistakes?" At this time, what will your heart think? On the contrary, if your parents affirm your achievements, say, "I believe you will do better next time." What would you think? The result is self-evident. Another situation is that some people who start late have some doubts about their abilities. If we continue to criticize blindly, it will only make them more depressed, while appreciation will make them realize their strengths, further develop their potential and make greater progress. For example, some students around us have poor grades in all subjects. At this time, if a teacher gives him praise and encouragement, he is likely to like this course because he likes this teacher, which will stimulate unexpected enthusiasm and achieve unexpected results.
From the above discussion, it is not difficult to see the different effects of criticism and encouragement on people. Of course, everything should be moderate. Moderate appreciation and encouragement can make people progress. Once excessive, it will have the same counter-effect as adding more water. (junior high school composition)
Therefore, just like adding sugar to water, the role of criticism and encouragement is not absolute. In order to achieve the expected results, we must make rational use of these two means to complement each other, thus benefiting education.
Encourage and criticize composition 2 Nowadays, many parents educate their children by scolding and criticizing them. I hope that children can work harder after being criticized. But encouragement is often better than criticism.
A scientist did an experiment. He divided the employees into four groups: 1 Group is the encouragement group, and employees are encouraged every time they come to hand in official documents or work. The second group is the criticism group, and the staff will criticize every time they hand in official documents or work. The third group is a bystander who listens to 1 group and the second group every time. Both groups criticize or praise, but the staff of the third group don't give any evaluation every time they hand in official documents or work. The fourth group is the isolation group. The isolation group is far away from the other three groups and stays in a fixed place. The staff in the fourth group don't read books every time they hand in official documents or work. After a year, the employees in 1 group are getting better and better, and they earn more and more money. The employees in the second group are not as many as 1 group, but more than those in the third group, and the third group is not as many as the second group, but more than the fourth group. This fully tells us a truth: encouragement is better than criticism, but criticism is better than no evaluation.
There was a child who was born stupid. The teacher lost confidence in him and criticized him almost every day. Once he came home from kindergarten and said to his mother, "Mom, I managed to sit still for a minute today." Mother boasted, "My son is really good. I will cheer even more next time! " The second time, he said to his mother, "I managed to sit still for three minutes today." Mom encourages it, too. In primary school, the child was always the last in the class, and the teacher often called her mother to come to school. Every time I hear the child being criticized by the teacher, my mother always goes home crying. The child asked his mother, "What did the teacher say? Did you criticize me? "Mom stopped crying at once and said with a smile," No, the teacher said that you have been doing very well recently. "There were so many mistakes in the original basic questions, and now it is only controlled within 10!" After hearing this sentence, the child was spiritually inspired. When I went to college, all the other children were admitted to good schools. At this time, the child cried and ran to his mother, holding Tsinghua University's admission notice. This tells us that encouragement is much better than criticism. Only encouragement can make a child gradually become a genius and succeed.
I hope teachers and parents will encourage us more and criticize us less in life, so that we can become better and more successful, and don't take criticism as the main way to educate our children. "A strict teacher makes a noble apprentice." "Strictness is love, and looseness is harm." These two sentences are correct. But there is also a famous saying: "Only love can cultivate children." Yes, only love can cultivate children! Let's be full of praise, encouragement and love in our future life!
I grew up with English being the worst in my class. Every time I have an English class, I hate buzzing English words very much. Anyway, I couldn't understand what the teacher said in class, so I scribbled on the table with a pen. "Bang bang", the pencil kept colliding with the table. I didn't hear anything the teacher said, but I thought it was a breeze, sometimes. I think it's a lullaby, too. I fell asleep at my desk watching the teacher speak English with different mouths.
Sure enough, I didn't even listen to a word until the final exam. Can I do well in the exam? The teacher asked us to read English to her, and I stammered, according to the Chinese "A". O.e. I ... "Read them one by one. As expected, I got 50 points that day. This is the first time I did so badly in the exam, so the teacher left me behind and said in a stern tone, "You must listen carefully in the next class and you will definitely get good grades in the exam!" I cried and replied, "Well. "
The next day, I had to keep my word and listen carefully. Although I don't understand and don't want to listen to the buzzing flies, I have to tell the truth. Later, I never slept in class again. Gradually, I began to adapt to the environment of English class and began to answer questions seriously. However, despite this, my grades have not improved much.
That afternoon, the English teacher left me and other people with poor grades behind. ...
"First of all, I want to criticize Yang, Zheng Yijun and other students. They did badly in the exam and didn't listen carefully in class. Secondly, LuanJingJie, Zhao Haoyu, and ... "I must be next. I closed my eyes and waited for the thunderous roar of the teacher. Gee, I only heard the teacher say angrily, "Jiang Zixuan!" Isn't she the same as me? I was not criticized. I opened my eyes and looked at Jiang doubtfully. When he heard the teacher's severe criticism, his face turned red and big tears came out of his eyes.
"Others still have a little hope of getting good grades." Listen to the teacher and I'm confused again. When I opened my eyes wide, I was actually told that I had hope. I was not criticized. I just heard the teacher say, "Chen Haoran didn't do well in the exam this time, but he was very careful in class, but his endorsement was particularly poor. As long as he is serious, 890 should be no problem. " I know the teacher is criticizing me for not reciting carefully at night, and texts are often recited and edited now, but the teacher is also encouraging me to be serious in class and finish my homework more seriously, especially reciting!
From then on, I started the road of reversal. English is no longer my weakness, and I finally got 90 points. I suddenly changed from a poor student in this class to an average student, thanks to that encouraging criticism!
I will never forget that sentence, which made me understand that anyone can succeed through unremitting efforts!
Encourage and criticize composition 4 On the road of growing up, others' encouragement and criticism of themselves is as important as day and night. Since I experienced that incident, I really understand that growth needs encouragement and criticism.
I remember when I was in the first grade, I drew a picture for my mother. After reading it, my mother said happily, "Daughter, you draw really well!" "After listening to my mother's praise, I happily thought: If I show this painting to my father, maybe there will be some reward! I excitedly put the photo on my father's desk, waiting for his praise.
Dad came back, saw the photo on the table and picked it up curiously. My mother excitedly walked up to my father and said, "This is the first painting my daughter has drawn since she entered primary school. Look, it's really good! " Dad looked at the painting, then looked at me proudly and frowned seriously and said, "Is this also called painting?" "If this is a painting, then everyone in the world has become a painter." Dad went on solemnly: "Look, this painting is not bright and vivid ..." I thought I could get my father's praise. Hearing my father's severe criticism, my heart was as cold as a pot of cold water poured on my feet, and tears of disappointment swirled in my eyes.
Mom was surprised to hear what dad said, and her smile immediately became gloomy. She gasped for air and said to her father, "You are such a man. You didn't encourage your daughter in her first painting. On the contrary, you compare yourself with her. What confidence does that daughter have in painting in the future? " "I didn't scold my daughter," my father said quietly. "I just pointed out her shortcomings and asked her to correct them." Listening to the quarrel between mom and dad, my tears fell down.
Two days later, I looked at the painting carefully and thought it was really an indecent painting. I recalled my parents' quarrel and felt that my father's action was correct. His harsh criticism not only made me realize my mistakes, but also restrained my pride in time. I carefully repainted one, and then showed it to my father modestly, asking him to correct me. Father finally smiled and nodded and said, "Well, yes, my daughter has really grown up!" " "My hanging heart really jumped up.
In the days to come, my father always made strict demands on me, and my mother always encouraged me. It is this kind of encouragement and criticism of love that makes me make unremitting efforts, make continuous progress and grow!
Yes, after this incident, I really realized that growth needs more encouragement and criticism!