For children, the most important thing in the process of growing up is the companionship of parents. At this important stage of growth, parents are not around and can't accompany their children. At this time, the psychological damage to the child is great, and it will also cause certain defects in the child's personality.

If parents can, they must take their children and spend more time with them. Otherwise, it is easy to have these four effects!

1, insecure

Children are very insecure when they are young. At this time, they need their parents' company to give them a sense of security. Therefore, for many children whose parents are not around, there will be a feeling of being abandoned by their parents, which will easily make them feel insecure and feel inferior at the same time, especially when other friends are accompanied by their parents.

2. Afraid of socializing

Children are not confident enough and always feel that their parents don't like themselves. This situation will make him feel a big gap, and then he will not dare to make friends for a long time. They will become more and more withdrawn and introverted, and even no longer like to communicate with others. This will be an obstacle in contemporary society. After all, if there are obstacles in communication, it is easier to form diseases psychologically.

Step 3 boycott parental education

For those who don't often accompany their children, more love for their children will come from the person who often accompanies them, and such familiarity and security will come from knowing that person. Although I have parents, I have a little resistance to my parents at this time, and I don't even listen to their education. I feel that their parents' strict education is more due to their dislike of themselves. In the eyes of parents, this has also become a kind of rebellion.

4. Formation of values

Generally speaking, contemporary parents are exposed to many new things in society and are closer to modernization in educating their children. And if you give it to your older generation for education, his values are mostly vague at this time. This is not to say that the older generation is bad, but it will have a far-reaching impact on children's values.

If parents really love their children, they must overcome difficulties and bring their children with them for education. what do you think?