Parents are the best parents as long as they try their best to give their children a happy life. There is no need to compare materials with others, because there is no end to material things, just like some people spend 1000 yuan on skirts, some people can spend 1000 yuan on skirts, and some people can spend 1000 yuan on skirts, so this material thing has no best concept. Everyone can afford different economic levels, so there is absolutely no need to compare with others in this respect.
Don't be led by mistakes, thinking that giving children enough material can make them better. Whether a child can become a success in the future has nothing to do with how much material you give him. Just like many successful people we know, such as Ma Yun, he grew up in a very poor family, but now he has achieved success through his own efforts.
Therefore, it is more important not to give children much material life, but to tell them how to become independent, independent, strong and persistent, not to be overwhelmed by difficulties, and to be brave in customer service difficulties. These spiritual aspects are much more important than giving him too much material life.
So don't put the cart before the horse, put the unimportant in front and the important in the back. Whether a child can grow up healthily and happily, care and love will always be the theme of his life, which can enrich his spiritual world and let him know what to fight for and what to live for.
If you blindly give your child material things and blindly compare with others, over time, you will form a wrong idea in your child's mind that only good materials can represent success. Once an idea is formed, it is difficult to change, so it is a sin to abandon this mentality that cannot give children the best.