First of all, we must be clear about what love is. Love is a demand of human emotions, which generally occurs in the mature period of human beings, that is, adulthood and adolescence. The process of love is generally divided into three processes, namely, mutual attraction in the initial stage, love in the second stage and dependence in the third stage. Then in the process of love, we should establish a correct view of love, which is generally expounded from these stages. Establish a correct concept of love in the stage of mutual attraction, we mainly refer to the places where the opposite sex makes you feel attractive. This charm can attract you to continue to communicate with them and bring you closer to each other. The correct concept of love holds that whether this attraction can be the driving force for you to keep in touch with them needs to be clear at the first stage of the love process. In the process of love, after a period of further communication and understanding, you can have a good impression on the object of communication, so this stage is like this. According to the correct concept of love, this kind of love can make you love me and my dog to the third stage. This dependence mainly refers to emotion. The feeling of two people together can make people relax and release their inner energy. According to the correct concept of love, this dependence can keep two people together all the time. It should be noted that there will be other special situations in the process of love, so these three stages are inevitable in the process of love, and establishing a correct view of love also plays a key role. I hope everyone can harvest their own beautiful love. How to establish a correct view of marriage and love II. A good marriage with economic independence requires both men and women to be sensible. "You are responsible for beauty, and I work hard to earn money to support my family." Many girls are elated when they hear boys say this to themselves, and they fantasize about all kinds of happy married life scenes in their minds. The image of boyfriend in his mind is extremely tall. Just waiting for happiness at your fingertips, thinking that he loves me. I don't need to think about everything after marriage. In fact, girls should immediately listen to these sugar-coated promises and have fun for a while. Don't place too much hope on them. They must have their own financial resources. Buy a big house and get a puppy. With the development of economy, the enhancement of women's independent consciousness, the increase of job opportunities and the improvement of their ability, women of marriageable age also have their own different views on marriage. They are not in a hurry to get married, but want to live a free life for three to five years, and some even enjoy their personal lives in their thirties and forties. Economic independence can satisfy people in many ways, and the needs of marriage are replaced step by step. "I can spend my own money at will." Many married women, even with their children at home, do various jobs such as WeChat business, Taobao and manual work. They are not yellow-faced women who only do laundry and cook with their babies in traditional marriages, but new housewives who will take care of their children and work hard. People often complain that their circle of friends and space are dominated by friends and relatives of young mothers. They feel helpless, disgusted and admired. These women don't want to rely directly on their husbands, and they are trapped in the cage of marriage like canaries. A certain degree of economic independence can make them live a more dignified life. Those days when my husband worked for a living were not a long-term solution. After all, married life is shared by two people, and there are not so many natural reasons. Second, independence and equal communication. Everyone belongs to himself in the end. No one is destined to obey and compromise others. Even in marriage, we should adhere to our own personality and dignity and grasp the discretion. An independent view of marriage requires individuals to have their own judgments and choices. Don't listen to other people's suggestions. Other people's opinions are for reference only, otherwise they will be particularly tired. You can't imagine a girl accepting a blind date arranged by her parents since her junior year. Today, five years later, this girl is still getting farther and farther on the road of blind date, opening a circle of friends, which is full of all kinds of complaints and self-sadness. Why do you abuse yourself so much? Self-confidence and connotation, independent choice of partners, unlike duckweed, has its own foundation, how can it be so miserable. Even if you enter the marriage and family, you still pay attention to your inner self, stick to what you should insist on and maintain your autonomy. The dialogue between husband and wife is unremarkable, not just who expects whom. Third, people who take part in social activities are most afraid of locking up their hearts. The new era is an era in which science and technology network information is developed, and it is an era in which generate is the spark of thought. It is necessary to establish an open and pluralistic view of marriage and avoid treating marriage as an island, living alone, or besieged and ignorant. Only by participating in social life can we keep a sensitive beating heart and be full of enthusiasm and hope for life. On this premise, if you don't give up work, study and communication, your marriage life will be updated and created from time to time. How to establish a correct view of marriage and love 3 How to establish a correct view of marriage and love-serious and single-minded, no matter love or marriage, there is no room for a third party to intervene. Because marriage and love are not child's play, we should treat each other sincerely and seek truth from facts. Facts have proved that you can't get along with each other by cheating. Therefore, once a marriage or love relationship is established, it is necessary to be serious and single-minded, and never change your mind and be half-hearted. How to establish a correct view of marriage and love-advocate a like-minded view of marriage and love. In the world of marriage and love, we should put like-minded people in the first place. As long as your thoughts and morals, interests in life and career ideals are mostly the same, you can endure hardships together and finally deduce a happy marriage or love. How to establish a correct view of marriage and love-understand that this is a kind of responsibility and dedication. In fact, love is not only to get, but more importantly to pay for each other. In daily life, everyone has two responsibilities: one is to the society, and the other is to the family. It is with this responsibility that one's personality charm can be reflected, one can have a strong sense of professionalism and responsibility, and finally one can have a happy love and marriage. How to establish a correct concept of marriage and love-more understanding, trust and tolerance, mutual respect. In the process of marriage or love, everyone should have more trust, understanding and tolerance for their other half. Because two people who love each other have independent spirit and personality, but you can neither completely follow each other nor blindly possess each other, so you should learn to compromise and respect each other. Summary: The above describes how to establish a correct concept of marriage and love, hoping to give you some little help. In fact, whether it is marriage or love, as long as everyone works hard, they can all reap the fruits of happiness.