1. Establish a trust relationship: communicate sincerely with children, listen to their opinions and ideas, and let them feel respected and concerned. By sharing their own experiences and ideas, we can build a bridge of communication with our children and increase mutual trust.

2. Explain the reasons: When children don't listen to you, try to explain your reasons to them so that they can understand your consideration. For example, when you don't let them do something, you can show that it is harmful to them, or you have a better choice.

3 Discover interest: help children discover interest, encourage children to try new things and cultivate their independent thinking ability. In this way, they will have more confidence in their lives and choices.

4. Provide choices: Give children choices and opportunities to participate, such as letting them decide what kind of clothes or meals they want. In this way, they will feel respected and more willing to accept your suggestion.

5. Strengthen constraints: If necessary, strengthen the constraints on children, for example, set reasonable rules and restrictions, and explain the consequences. But to ensure its rationality and fairness.

I hope it will help you, but each child's situation is different, so choose the method suitable for the child according to the situation!