psychological burden
The aggressive education of my parents made me doubt my ability and made me feel uneasy about my ability. This long-term negative feedback makes me feel that whatever I do is not good enough, which always makes me worry that I will fail again. This kind of psychological burden makes me too nervous and anxious in my study and so on, and I lose my confidence.
Impaired interpersonal relationship
My parents' aggressive education had a bad influence on my interpersonal relationship. Being criticized for a long time, I become very sensitive and care too much about other people's comments and opinions. I am afraid of being considered a loser or incompetent by others, so I always try to complete every task perfectly to avoid being laughed at or accused. This makes me lonely, unwilling to share my feelings and experiences with others, and afraid of being hurt or rejected.
Value deviation
My parents' aggressive education has had a certain impact on my self-values. They always emphasize achievements and external success, and think that only through hard work and good achievements can they be recognized and respected by others. This makes me mainly rely on the external evaluation and recognition of my own value, while ignoring my inner needs and true feelings. I have become the pursuit of perfection and success, ignoring personal happiness and inner satisfaction.
Growth and cognition
With the growth of age and the deepening of self-awareness, I gradually realized the limitations and unhealthy nature of this kind of education. I began to find my own interests and enthusiasm, and tried to establish a positive self-image. I began to accept my shortcomings and imperfections and learn from my failures. I also learned to establish good communication and cooperation with others and seek their support and understanding.
Next generation education
In the process of growing up, I hope to give the next generation a gentler and more understanding way of education. I believe that by encouraging and supporting children's efforts and interests, they will be able to develop their unique talents and personalities and achieve real success and happiness in the future.