The more you care about children, the worse? What are the four "excesses" that parents can get rid of and easily teach excellent children? As we all know, adolescent children are more playful. In this respect, many parents will think that the child is a little inactive, so they will stop or interfere when he is playing, which will not only make him unhappy, but also destroy the child's attention. Because adolescent children are keen to play with assembled toys, they can not only exercise their brain thinking, but also exercise their operational ability and attention, so parents don't have to interfere too much when playing.

If you don't care too much, too much care will make your child less motivated. Most families have only one child, so parents take care of him very carefully. They are worried that their children will not have enough to eat on campus, so they will prepare many snacks for them in advance. They are worried that he will be bullied at school, so they have been bothering teachers to care more about their children. They worry that he is too tired to do housework at home, and his parents don't want him to stick his hands. This made him feel that he would get something for nothing and even rely too much on his parents. He hopes that everything will be arranged by his parents. Such children will be very motivated when they grow up. Parents should never take too much care of their children and let them learn to be independent.

Don't reward excessively. Now many parents will choose the way of reward to stipulate their children. For example, if he doesn't like studying, tell him to buy him snacks or take him somewhere to play as long as he can finish his homework. In fact, this method is not good for children, because some things are their business, not their parents'. If his parents reward him blindly, he can still do something in the future on the basis that his parents meet his needs. This kind of child will become very selfish and unsatisfied in the future, so parents should never reward their children excessively.

Some parents educate their children in a "casual" way in the case of cultural education. However, parents should make a clear distinction. Letting children do it freely is not the same as a presumptuous child. Because children who are too presumptuous, their awareness of rules will be relatively shallow, and it will be difficult to integrate in society or at work in the future. Therefore, in the case of cultural education for children, parents need to give them freedom while shaping a certain concept of time so that they will not easily become "wild" children.