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Parents are children's first teachers, and good family education is very important for children's growth. Here are some experiences that a parent talked about.
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to my daughter's education at the moment, my life experience has warned me that family education is no less important to children than school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this principle of education for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and art under the education of schools, society and families, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" cannot be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents and follow their own life path with self-diligence, children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve their own moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living with quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference ... This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at understanding the characteristics of new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and the society.
In the future, I am determined to cooperate with the school to educate children well and make them become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion.
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As a mother, my wish is to look forward to my daughter's happy life and healthy growth! My daughter has always wanted to be a perfect child in front of the teacher since she was a child. As a result, it backfired, showing too much concern and self-confidence.
Rousseau, a French educator, once said: "Self-confidence is the miracle of his career. With it, his talents can be inexhaustible; A person without self-confidence will not seize an opportunity no matter how talented he is. "
Therefore, self-confidence is the most precious wealth in life.
Experts at home and abroad have also investigated talented people and found that they all share several excellent qualities, one of which is self-confidence without inferiority.
In view of my daughter's actual performance, I think the cultivation of self-confidence should be particularly important during her growth. As for the cultivation of children's self-confidence, I mainly adopt the following methods:
Parental care is the cornerstone of children's self-confidence.
Parents should express their love for their children and let them feel the love from their parents all the time, so that they will be more confident no matter what they do.
My daughter often plays all kinds of strange faces and asks me: If she looks like this, do I love her? Or if she lacks an eye, or legs and arms, do I still love her? Once when she asked me this question again, I didn't tell her the answer directly, but told her a story: "An angel came into this world and said to a mother, I have a gift, and I want you to help me give it to the cutest child in the world. After a while, the angel came again and asked his mother if she had given a gift to the cutest child. Mother said, I looked around and thought my child was the cutest, so I gave the gift to my child. " Through this story, I let my daughter know that whether she is beautiful or not, she is the cutest and most beautiful in the eyes of her parents.
After her daughter went to school, she began to worry about what to do with her poor academic performance. I often ask, mom, if I don't study well and get the first place in my class, do you still love me? I always tell her without hesitation that the first place in the exam is not the key, but whether you work hard or not. As long as you work hard, no matter which place you get in the exam, mom will love you and cheer for you!
Second, self-confidence needs the publicity of personality. In daily life, children should be given more opportunities to show themselves.
My daughter loves singing since she was a child and has a good memory. Before the cartoon was finished, the ending song of the theme song began to sing and dance.
Once, her father's unit held an activity to celebrate "August 1st", and the soldiers were singing blindly. Her father encouraged her to sing a song on stage, and her daughter's song "Invisible Wings" won everyone's applause before it was over.
After we invented our daughter's specialty, we encouraged her to sing boldly. For the first time, she participated in Changji Children's Singer Karaoke TV Competition, and her five-year-old daughter won the third prize in the children's group. Since then, our daughter's hobby has been out of control. She is willing to sing on any occasion without stage fright. She also said that she really wanted to participate in the children's program of CCTV's Baby Family. Teacher Liu's comment "You are versatile" made her beautiful for a long time during the winter vacation. She told me confidently that she should not only be versatile in the future, but also help the teacher manage the class as the teacher said.
Children need to be invented and affirmed when they grow up, especially those who don't know themselves well, and they need to be appreciated by others. Children's hobbies become specialties, which stems from the encouragement and support of parents. Don't be afraid of children's pride. Children will show their personality in publicity. At this time, teachers and parents should proudly say to her, "You are great!"
Third, grasp small links to improve children's self-confidence in learning.
When my daughter first went to school, she indicated to me with her hand that her love for Chinese was as big as that of an elephant, and her love for mathematics was only as big as that of a watermelon. One day, after she came back, she said happily to me, "Mom, Teacher Ding made me a math committee member of the first group today!" " "I asked," why? " She said, "I don't know. Maybe I am serious in class. " I quickly said, "the math study Committee must be good at math." She asked me worriedly, "Does Mr. Ding Na know that I am not interested in learning mathematics?" I said, "Teacher Ding not only doesn't know, but must think that your interest in mathematics is still great! ""She said seriously, "Now, I want to study math, and I must make my hobby of learning math bigger." Encouraged by us and our teacher, her enthusiasm for learning mathematics is gradually rising in the process of collecting large groups of math homework every day. Sometimes when I do some math problems with my brain, I will happily say, "Mom, I always make such problems wrong, and now I have done them right. I think math is also very interesting! " "During the winter vacation, she took the initiative to ask me to buy her a first-grade math exercise paper, and sometimes she was very enthusiastic. She has to do several papers a day, so that her father and I can correct them carefully to see if she has made progress. At the beginning of this semester, I took her to the bookstore. She said to me, "Mom, buy me a workbook to strengthen the application problems. I'm a math committee member, but I don't think I can learn application problems well. "We made full use of the opportunity of' the teacher asked her to undertake the task of receiving a large number of math homework' to motivate her. At the moment, she has confidence in learning mathematics and her interest in learning mathematics is getting stronger and stronger.
Fourth, when children are frustrated, give them incentives for love in time.
A hug, a kiss and an encouraging word can help children regain their confidence.
After her daughter went to school, she expected to wear a red scarf one day earlier, but when the teacher announced the list of joining the team, she found that she did not have her own name, and her daughter's self-confidence was hit. After returning home, he told me with tears: "mom, I think I study hard, too." Why didn't I join the team this time? Does the teacher dislike me? "
I suddenly realized that the process of children's growth was so smooth that I hardly suffered too many setbacks. You can't grow up without setbacks, but you must guide your children in time and correctly, and don't let them be defeated by setbacks. I held my daughter in my arms and said to her, "You didn't wear a red scarf this time. Mom thinks it's not that the teacher doesn't like you. It must be that you haven't done anything well! " The daughter thought for a moment and said, "Am I not active enough to answer questions in class?" Because my daughter is a child who is too cautious to pursue perfection, in my communication with Teacher Liu, I know that my daughter is not very active in answering questions in class. She always raises her hand when she thinks she can answer correctly 100%.
After listening to my daughter's words, I thought it was a good opportunity, so I said, "Yes, although you are serious in class and homework, you are not bold enough to answer questions, which will also affect your joining the team." Think about what you haven't done well. "The daughter said," Mom, I can't remember. Why not ask Teacher Liu! " "My daughter is always careful, afraid that the teacher will beg me for anything. Let me ask the teacher. I took the opportunity to say: you dare not ask the teacher, you are timid. This is also a shortcoming, which will definitely affect joining the team. "
In order to join the team one day earlier, my daughter finally got up the courage to ask Miss Liu why she didn't join the team. When Teacher Liu kindly told her that "just joining the team is not enough, just study hard, and help other students and pay more attention to the class", firstly, her daughter confirmed that not joining the team was not that the teacher didn't like it, and secondly, she knew what she needed to work hard on. Later, when it was her turn to be the group leader, I took the opportunity to say, "Look, Miss Liu gave you an opportunity to help your classmates take care of the class. Mom believes that you will do well! " With the encouragement of teachers and parents, my daughter is also very happy. The notebook carefully records the homework handed in by team members every day. Although the handwriting is immature, I feel that my daughter is happier and more confident than before.
No matter how busy I go home every day, I always take time to listen to my daughter talk about her study and life at school. As long as I hear her raise her hand and wait for a little progress in her study, or the team leader gets a little happiness in serving everyone, I will inspire her and give her a high five. Finally, one day, when I said I wanted to ask Miss Liu something, my daughter volunteered, "Mom, by the way, can you ask Miss Liu when I answer questions recently?" I know that with her personality, let me take the initiative to ask the teacher about his situation at school. I'm sure I feel good about myself Sure enough, Mr. Liu said that he had changed a lot recently, and he was much more active in answering questions in class than before.
Later, the teacher arranged for her to take charge of collecting her large group of exercise books, and her classmates called her to ask her homework every once in a while. She feels that the teacher has a great responsibility for her small officials and plays an important role in the class group. She can help everyone, she is no worse than others, and her daughter has found her confidence again.
Confidence comes from the hint of success, and terror comes from the hint of failure. Once people's positive hints are formed, they will help you succeed just like sailing; On the other hand, the formation of negative psychological suggestion, which cannot be eliminated in time, will affect the success of life.
The cultivation of self-confidence is not achieved overnight, it requires the close cooperation and persistent efforts of parents and teachers. Although my daughter's self-confidence is still a long way from my expected goal, I believe that as long as the method is proper and persistent, she will become more and more confident.
The above is just my experience, and I believe there are many good practices. I hope my little experience can play a role in attracting jade, and I hope all children can turn self-confidence into powerful wings and fly to happiness! Fly to success!
Reflections on the open class of family education 3
Children are the wealth of every parent. How to make children grow up healthily and live happily with their parents in school and even in society in the future is an unavoidable realistic topic for every parent.
School life requires children to establish a strong sense of collective and time, abide by school discipline and respect social morality. However, the child's young age and playful nature only made him understand these truths. If he doesn't go through continuous and proper training and education, he may not get better results. Therefore, from the beginning of kindergarten, I have given them regular education, and put forward clear requirements on how to attend classes, how to answer questions, how to respect teachers, how to unite classmates to deal with the relationship between classmates and so on. Then, it is often taught that children still can't "see everything", otherwise, children may not have childlike innocence.
I can't educate my children simply by reasoning. Children like to listen to adult stories when they are young, and even the most naughty children will be reminded immediately when they listen to stories. I caught my son's curious psychological characteristics and often gave him timely education through childhood hardships.
In order to cultivate good study habits, I told him an example of a famous contemporary scientist and let him know that he should study hard and seriously. When children do their homework, it is inevitable that there will be a phenomenon of "twisting their buttocks". In order to cultivate children's patience and patience, mother will read a book quietly while he is doing his homework, so that he can gradually cultivate quiet and dynamic behavior habits.
We attach great importance to children's ideological and moral education and the spirit of unity and friendship. For example, children sometimes complain that individual classmates are interested in his things, such as toys and books, and even ask him to treat them to buy food after school. In this case, I will smile and say to him: As a male classmate, you should at least be generous and open-minded. Why not be a "good man" and a "leader" if you have the ability? Next, the child laughed himself, and the child seemed to understand what I meant, so I achieved my educational goal. But on the other hand, I will never allow him to have "that" thought, because this is an unequal requirement under the two "systems". I told my son that whoever has equal secular care will have secular results in the future.
I always feel that our cultivation of children's moral construction is conducive to his help in moral education. Educate and cultivate children to respect social morality (such as giving up their seats on buses, helping begging peers or the elderly in society, sponsoring charity performances for the disabled, donating money for the Wenchuan earthquake, etc.). ) can greatly cultivate his sympathy and gratitude for the existing happy life and help him build greater self-confidence and sense of responsibility for society in the future. For another example, when we give my parents pension money every month, we should try our best to let the children see it and let him know that their parents don't forget to bite the hand that feeds them. On several occasions, children will naturally "care about and urge" whether we "honor" his grandparents in time in January. Filial piety has sprouted and thrived in children's young hearts since then. Although children are young, they are still among the primary school students, but it takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people. To improve the quality of one generation, we must have the contribution of the second generation. There is no reason why we parents should not undertake this mission. Lao Liang preached about our country with young chinese.
Everyone has self-esteem, moderate praise and criticism. After children distinguish right from wrong, I often praise a student partner around me, and use his positive factors in moral quality, thinking and behavior to influence and overcome the negative factors in his children, which is conducive to students learning from each other and achieving the goal of learning from each other's strengths.
Children are very imitative, and every move, word and deed of teachers and parents have a subtle influence on children. At work, my child's mother and I are strict with ourselves and set an example everywhere. No matter what the children are asked to do, we try our best to do it first. If children are asked to be polite to people, I will take the lead in using polite language; If I ask my children to care for the environment, I will take the lead in environmental protection. In particular, I can take the initiative to clean the corridor of our own unit, from the sixth floor to the first floor, for seven years.
How time flies! Although we are busy every day, we are happy and tired. In the future, we will work harder, constantly improve ourselves, improve ourselves, and let our son leap to a higher level in his growth.
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Primary education is the earliest formal education a person receives in his life. Doing a good job in primary education plays an important role in cultivating children's noble morality and good quality from an early age. Good primary education can help children finish primary school, middle school and even university in the future. As the saying goes, "everything is difficult at the beginning", and primary education is the "head" of life education. How to make a good start is very important. It can sometimes decide what kind of road a person will take in this life and how to be a man in the future.
When my daughter was in the first grade, I always thought that this period should be the best time to cultivate her good study habits. After school, I accompany her to finish her homework every day and ask her to check it and prepare for the review. I always feel that if she forms this habit, she won't have any difficulty in her studies. It's easier said than done. At first, my daughter moved slowly, wrote slowly, and did problems slowly, erasing and writing word by word. There are not many new words in a text, but she has to write half a sentence or even an hour. I got 55 points in a Chinese exam. Later, the teacher called and said that my daughter couldn't do it, but she did it too slowly and asked her parents to exercise her more at home. Therefore, I put an alarm clock on her desk every day when I go home from school to do my homework, so that she can have a sense of time and finish her homework within the specified time. After a period of exercise, my daughter's writing speed is obviously accelerated, the quality of her homework is also very good, and her daughter has confidence. I also bought some homework for her to practice at home on weekends. After I finish, I will help her to correct it with a red pen like a teacher, write down the scores and help her explain her mistakes until she understands. I have kept this habit since I graduated from grade one to grade five. I think this knowledge in primary school is the foundation, and it is nothing more than doing more problems. Watch more questions and do more, and you will do well in the exam. So her grades have always been among the best.
Let me talk about how to tutor three main courses at home.
First of all, I speak Chinese first. Chinese in the lower grades is nothing more than remembering the new words you have learned and then slowly expanding them into words. If you learn more words, you will make sentences. We must lay a good foundation and recite new words and phrases every day. As time goes by, if she knows more words, her reading ability will improve. This is of great help to children's reading analysis and composition in the future. You should also read more extracurricular books. At first, you can read some pinyin extracurricular books, which is helpful to improve pinyin. We should also take our children out to see nature, let her observe everything around her carefully, and let her write what she saw and heard when she wrote her composition in senior grades. With this foundation, coupled with the improvement of children's understanding ability and the increase of reading, it is easy to express their views on things. In Gary, I often buy some books for open reading and reading analysis, so that children can practice more at home, which can improve their reading analysis and let her read good articles. This is really killing two birds with one stone.
I don't have any special tricks about learning mathematics. When children are young, the development of brain language function is greater than logical thinking. In other words, children are slow in logical thinking. Therefore, you should tell your child in a simple way when she encounters a problem that she can't do. Don't talk to her rashly about a topic that you think is simple, but she still doesn't understand. Be sure to think and understand according to the child's thinking. In order to make education conform to the law of children's growth and development, we can focus on cultivating her sensitivity to numbers. Play games and cards one by one, and train her computing ability. When she finishes learning addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, she can play 2 1 dot with her. This can not only learn knowledge, but also increase feelings with children. Once, the school held a parent-child activity, and my daughter and I won the 24-point PK competition. When a child makes a leap in logical thinking, she will learn mathematics faster and easier.
Nowadays, English is much more difficult than when we were young. I also learned from scratch with my daughter. What I learned in school during the day, I listened to it several times in the repeater at night, and let her see it. After reading it, I asked the children to recite the words and memorize them. The knowledge of the day is digested on the same day. Reading, reciting and silent reading are the foundation. They have a solid foundation and can cope with future pronunciation and grammar. Let the children do more homework at home to consolidate it. This kind of English achievement is certainly ok.
In short, primary school students' family education should learn to communicate with their children attentively, that is, be patient and meticulous, and be flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we afraid that we can't teach well?
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Speaking of children, probably every parent has endless topics. The growth of children has devoted too much effort and love to us. Of course, children have also brought us countless joys. Children are growing up day by day, from babbling and toddlering to today's children, and their changes bring us surprises one by one. In fact, the growth process of children is also the growth process of our parents, and we are constantly learning and making progress in their schools. I really don't know whether we taught the children or the children taught us.
When it comes to educating children, I don't think there is any success. However, the child has grown from a hungry baby to a teenager who knows a little about personnel. This process is indeed the condensation of our parents' painstaking efforts. There is also a lot of confusion. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.
The purpose of my family's education for children is to let them understand truth and virtue and become a sincere and sincere person. Everything should be guided correctly, so that children can develop the habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality. Children should be trained to think more about the public and try to get rid of selfish ideas. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love the society, honor their parents and respect their teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique.
Children grow up day by day, but no matter how long they grow, they will always be children in the eyes of their parents. We always feel that they can't do this or that and need our help everywhere. In fact, children's abilities are often beyond our imagination. The key is whether we will let them do it. Maybe we all have this experience. It seems that a child will do something overnight that we have never specifically called him. We will be surprised: how did he learn it? This is the child. As long as we let him take the first step, they will give us a big surprise! Maybe sometimes we think it is not so easy for them to do it by themselves, but children will do it two or three times at a time and will do it well one day! If you don't let him do it, I'm afraid he will never do it well. At home, we try to let children do what they can, such as serving food, pouring tea and sweeping the floor for adults. Communication ability in modern society is also very important, and we should also pay attention to training. On the one hand, we encourage children to communicate with others, on the other hand, we also give them some communication skills.
Educate children to be ambitious. People can't achieve great things without ambition. Ambition is one's goal. Therefore, our family often urges children to have clear goals. Ask children to be ambitious. Clear the direction and study hard. Diligent, at home, ask children to do "parents call and answer;" Parents, don't be lazy. At school, children are required to "respect teachers and listen to their teaching". "Listen carefully in class, complete all the homework assigned by the teacher on time, unite students and learn from each other's strengths; Do as many things as possible that are beneficial to the public at school. Strictly abide by school rules, educate children to strive to be an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, serve the motherland and people in the future, and be a wise, moral and conscious person. This is our family's expectation and education plan for children.
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