People who are too empathetic often live in pain and even be used because of emotional overload.
If you are also so empathetic, please read this article carefully.
Once upon a time, a fox accidentally fell into a hole in the ground.
It shouted helplessly for help: "I'm trapped, it's so dark here, I can't stand it!" " "
A deer poked its head out from above and said, "Oh! It's terrible! "
He looked at the fox sympathetically and asked, "Do you want a sandwich?"
A bear crept into the hole from the ground.
He did nothing but say to the fox, "Hey! I know what it's like down there. You're not alone. "
In the face of trapped foxes, deer and bear have diametrically opposite attitudes.
One is to stand at a distance and give sympathy and comfort;
The other is to give enough empathy around, so that the fox can feel the comfort of being understood and empathetic.
People who have empathy have an unparalleled power.
It is more obvious in interpersonal communication in daily life.
Excellent managers can rely on empathy and high emotional intelligence communication to lead a good team, so as to achieve the success of the project and the promotion of the workplace;
Excellent parents let their children grow up in a healthier and more sunny environment through their empathetic companionship and education;
Even ordinary people can better feel the emotions of people around them because of empathy, so as to handle interpersonal relationships and gain good popularity.
But Tao Te Ching once said: Everything in the world is interdependent and unity of opposites.
Empathy constitution is like a sponge, which can absorb the joys and sorrows around it.
They are sensitive, good at listening and creative;
But it will also be trapped in the world and it is difficult to live in bondage;
This duality is extremely obvious in literary and art workers.
Empathy makes artists more sensitive and fragile while creating touching works.