I have to say that this method of making children fierce is really effective. The child obeyed in an instant. But parents also left a huge shadow on their children's hearts. (family).
As parents, be tolerant of your children. Try these five ways to adjust your feelings.
Grumpy parents can learn these five methods and make their children love you more without teaching.
When you are in a hurry: you can show weakness to your child and don't let your child become fierce.
Many times, it is obvious that you are already angry and tired. Your child is still making noise. If you make unreasonable demands to play with her or buy toys, some parents will lose control of their anger. And viciously said to the child, "play by yourself and leave me alone." Go ahead.
Actually, you can tell him in other ways. For example, if you ask him 3360, "Honey, mom is tired today. Let her have a rest and play tomorrow? " "If you choose to discuss with your child in a weak way, it will not only scare the child, but also let the child learn to be obedient.
Grumpy parents can learn these five methods and make their children love you more without teaching.
When a child makes a mistake: stating the facts is more effective than cursing.
Children are bound to make mistakes. As parents, we must correct our children's mistakes. At this time, parents' educational methods will change. Smart parents will choose calm statements. For example, "it is impolite for children to go through other people's things, and others are unhappy." Don't do this again, okay? " "。 Only those who have a bad temper and don't know how to educate their children will say this. "Don't you know you can't just go through other people's things? If you do that again, I'll hit you. "The former teaches children manners, and the latter only scares children, so the gap is clear at a glance. Shakespeare, Hamlet.