Children are not only the wealth of parents, but also the pillars of the country's future. As parents, we should not only give them a good economic foundation, but more importantly, give them spiritual care. It is the most important thing to really teach them how to be human and the skills to survive. One. Parents' words and deeds are really important. 1, be your child's best friend, communicate more, and always know what he is thinking. 2. Don't be arbitrary, dare to apologize to your child, correct your mistakes when you know them, and set a good example for your child. 3. Always hold the child and say "I love you" to make the child feel warm and safe. 4. Encourage the child to admit his mistakes and forgive him with tolerance, and he will remember it deeply. 5, never compare with other children, where is your child inferior to other children. 6. Encourage children to be confident and happy. 7. It is too important to teach him the ability to distinguish right from wrong from childhood. 8. Teach him safety knowledge from an early age, learn to protect yourself, and tell him that health and happiness are always the most important. 9. Teach him self-interest and independence from an early age. 10, from small to large, he is not spoiled and willful. Teach him how to get along with others and tell him to be a good boy that everyone loves. Two. Methods: 1, heuristic education, entertaining, life-oriented training of children's interest is very important. 2, always let the children feel that as long as you do it with your heart, there is nothing wrong. No matter what happens, our parents can help him out. We are also his most trusted friends. 4. Play with children more, and you can learn a lot in the process of sharing and playing. 5. Grow up with children and study more. 6. I often analyze what I see every day with my children. I never tell him right or wrong directly. I'll let him answer. 7. Take the children out for a walk and broaden their horizons. 8, encourage to do what you like, let children have a wide range of interests and knowledge. 9. As long as he is not tired, encourage him to be a class cadre. 10, which made him a little depressed. He will feel deeply and won't make the same mistake again. 1 1, teach him filial piety and learn to love his parents. Take the initiative to do things for parents. 12, do your own thing, don't spoil the children. If not, I won't help him do it, I will remind him to finish it.