In the past few years, we have brought the concept of automatic and spontaneous education system to hundreds of cities across the country. What makes us proud is that in this process, there have been a number of stories about the changes and progress of parents and children. Numerous parents have freed themselves from the educational confusion through the courses of the voluntary education system, and there are also many children. They have no motivation to find motivation in the past, from passive learning to spontaneous growth. From being influenced by the outside world to being unaffected by others, many students are now students from famous universities such as Peking University, Tsinghua, Wuhan University and Zhejiang University. Of all the things I have done in my life, one that I find particularly valuable and meaningful is that I chose to do family education. I did some adult training for a while. In the process of training them, I found that many people have no obvious effect on how to train. Later, my research found that the biggest bottleneck of their growth and the biggest obstacle of the part where they are difficult to be trained come from their parents' education of their ideas when they were young.
It comes from the way they are treated since childhood, from the interaction mode with their parents since childhood, from the soft environment in which they grew up, and so on. So I was thinking about a question, if we can educate the parents of children when they are young and cultivate them with correct concepts and methods. That child will suffer less injuries, detours and setbacks in the future, and it will be easier for him to adapt to society after entering the society. Towards success, so doing family education has become my life's mission.
? Over the past ten years, I have only done one thing, that is, the research summary, practical application and dissemination of this automatic and spontaneous education system. Over the years, no one believed me from the beginning, and no one doubted me. From the beginning to today, my management team and teaching staff have spread all over China. From the beginning, there were no customers to today's partners. Clients, disciples, etc. More and more parents come into our classrooms all over the world, and there are many unmarried young men and women who have learned to be spontaneous in advance.
Very comforting. I was also rated as the leader of education in China on 20 18. 20 19, the leader of quality education in China, surpassed pinnacle education group and was also named as 20 18 brand influence education group. Here I want to thank our great motherland, my team, my customers and friends very, very much. ? Anything great needs persistence and greatness. In order to realize the great dream of making spontaneity free all over the world at an early date, I presented some wonderful on-site courses, which parents have to travel a long way and spend a lot of money to learn, and all parents in China have the opportunity to get in touch with the concept of spontaneity education through 30 online lectures. For such a unique education system, how can we master automatic reproduction more quickly and effectively? My students summed up the principle of spontaneous learning according to the sharing of outstanding students in the past. Share it with you here. First of all, what we have to do is to repeat this series of courses. We listen attentively at least three times, which is spontaneous, self-contained and profound. Very thoughtful, many ideas need to be tried again and again, carefully and carefully. When you can master the core concept of spontaneity, it is the time when you educate your children to be handy for their own growth. The second point suggests that our whole family listen together and bring our loved ones, parents and children. Learn together and grow together. However, we should know that the purpose of learning is not to find out where the other party's mistakes are, but to improve the understanding of education together, so that the same frequency will resonate and the resonance will resonate. The purpose of learning is not to blame and criticize others, but to let yourself know how to return to the standard, see the truth clearly, have greater tolerance and tolerance, and be responsible for your own results and actions.
? Third, we study with a realistic attitude. Chairman Mao once said that the world is afraid of being serious. Many friends will use their known thinking and standards to judge right and wrong, good and bad, right and wrong. Spontaneity is a unique educational thought. There are many opinions and ideas. Many methods are completely different from what we can usually learn and see. It is very important to understand what I said in my course, why I said this, what I said in my course, and the laws and principles behind my views. When we say we know what it is, we should know why. For example, for example, we don't compare our children with other children in many similar viewpoints, but in fact, I want to tell you that whether parents compare their children with other children or not, this comparison is objective, that is, if you don't compare your children, you compare yourself with other children. So what parents should do is not to compare, but to teach their children how to compare correctly. We should not only teach children to compete correctly. We should not only teach children to face the competition correctly, but also teach them to face the results of success and failure after the competition. We should not only teach our children to compete correctly, but also teach them to respect their competitors. We should not only teach our children how to respect our competitors, but also teach them to allow our competitors not to respect us as we respect him.
I'm sure you've heard something similar. Don't criticize children, but I want to tell you that you should learn to criticize children correctly. You may have heard the view that we should praise children more. Good boy likes to brag. But I want to tell you that praise is important, but we should teach our children the ability to face others' praise, praise and criticism correctly. You may have heard the idea that children should be taught to control their emotions. Of course, I want to tell you that it is important to control your emotions, but it is more important for us to teach our children how to deal with emotional parents. There are also views that it is necessary to cultivate children's gratitude mentality. But I want to tell you that it is very important to cultivate children's gratitude, but it is more important to cultivate children to be a valuable person who contributes to others and society, and to make children the object of gratitude of others. In fact, you have heard the view that we should love our children unconditionally. I want to tell you that unconditional love is very important, but it is more important to cultivate children's ability to love and feel love.
The reason why I put forward these views is to teach our parents to be objective. Can look at this problem objectively. Only by changing cognition can we change our world. Many ideas are spontaneous, and I will systematically explain many ideas to you in later courses and teach them to understand. In my opinion, a teacher should be a thinker first, so learning is not only a learning method, but also a learning concept. The important thing is to enlighten thinking, open up thinking, let go of the pattern, and learn to think before applying what you have learned. If you don't understand, you are doomed to failure, and if you don't understand, you are doomed to failure. To sum up, we should learn to be casual. First of all, we must repeat. Second, the whole family should bring their partners, family members and children. The third is to study spontaneity with a modest and pragmatic attitude. I wish you all something through learning, family happiness through learning, and spontaneous growth through learning children.