Liu Mei criticized the children, but he was still angry. Xia Donghai enlightened Liu Mei, saying that it is not enough to educate children through criticism, but more encouragement is needed. On the first day, Liu Xing got back the failed test paper, and Liu Mei resisted anger and "encouraged"; The next day, Xiaoyu was complained by her neighbors. Liu Mei did not criticize, but increased encouragement; On the third day, Xia Xueye got into trouble, but Liu Mei still gave a lot of "encouragement".

The inexplicable encouragement made the three children uneasy. They all thought it was a "hidden murder". A few days passed, and Liu Mei, who was addicted to "encouragement", found that the children had not made any mistakes, and he had no chance to encourage himself.

So, Liu Mei talked with the children, and the three children became more and more afraid, so they simply confessed completely and won leniency. All three children confessed their hidden "historical problems". Liu Mei finally couldn't bear it, and announced that he would stop encouraging education immediately and start "compulsory education". The children fled for their lives.

Families with Children: Xia Donghai's Educational Model

First of all, he is good at finding the bright spots in children and giving encouragement.

For Liu Xing, the most naughty of the three children, Liu Mei took the attitude of killing Liu Xing with a stick, and rarely felt Liu Xing's feelings in person. On the other hand, Xia Donghai always found the advantages of Liu Xing and encouraged and guided him.

Take Liu Xing's academic performance as an example. Liu Xing's academic performance can be said to be the biggest problem in their family, and getting two points in the exam can be said to be Liu Xing's exclusive word. Facing the fact that Liu Xing didn't do well in the exam, her mother Liu Mei kept staring at Liu Xing's grades. But my father, Xia Donghai, pointed out the advantages of Liu Xing and praised him without stint.

Secondly, he attaches great importance to children's privacy and gives them trust and respect.

Liu Mei mistakenly thought that she was in love, and also organized the whole family to follow Xiaoxue, rummaging through Xiaoxue's drawers privately, trying to find clues.

Knowing this, Xia Donghai immediately stopped this behavior and said, "Every child has her own little secret, and sometimes she doesn't want others to know. Generally speaking, respecting the right to privacy is a sign of social civilization and progress; To put it mildly, if a child is not respected, how can she respect others? "