It is often said that parents are the best teachers for children.
Over the years, I have really learned a lot from my father and benefited a lot. The most important thing is:
Happy. Sense of responsibility. Filial piety In my memory, my father is always happy. No matter the adversity is good or bad, he always smiles and sometimes feels a little like a child.
I remember when I first started working, I had a lot of troubles. I had just entered the office. The intrigue among colleagues, the pressure of leadership and the huge workload make me particularly uncomfortable. I am full of negative energy every day. Although my self-help ability is limited, fortunately, I will turn to my family, especially my father who is full of positive energy. During that time, he really helped me a lot.
When there are contradictions between colleagues, I don't want to tell him that the work distribution is unfair. I will tell him many things. What is still fresh in my memory is that I will not be convinced by the uneven distribution of work by department heads. My opinion is that wages are fixed. Some people do less, others do more. Father said, you should not always feel unfair, and leaders will not always be like this. Moreover, even if you do more, you can see the number you have completed by giving it to the big leaders. At the same time, you should be happy.
The writer Gorky once said:
Happiness is the greatest thing in life.
Life will not be smooth sailing, even an optimistic father has encountered storms. One year, my mother wanted to invest, but she had no money. She reached out and asked her father for hundreds of thousands. My father gave her savings for many years. Unexpectedly, she not only didn't make any money, but also lost some money, and suddenly lost tens of thousands and was trapped. Father didn't complain, but tried to make money to make the family better.
Although my father didn't make a fortune, what he said most was that as a man, he should have the responsibility to start a business. In those years, almost 80% of the daily necessities, food, clothing, housing and loans were borne by his father.
Mr. Lu Xun once said:
Unfilial people are the most hateful people in the world.
On the other hand, filial piety is easier said than done. What impressed me most was my father's filial piety. I was deeply impressed by his filial piety to my grandma and grandpa since I was a child.
When I was in high school, my grandfather suddenly had a cerebral infarction. Symptoms are probably dementia, mobility is inconvenient, and people need to take care of eating and going to the toilet. At first I hired a nurse, but later I found that the nurse was irresponsible, so my father took care of my grandfather himself. If I want to go to work, I will ask my grandmother to cooperate with the nurse and go home to take care of my grandfather immediately after work. The old man is constipated. Moreover, my grandfather, who was ill in bed for a long time, was not too dirty, and even reached out to help him. No kidding, few children in this world can do it, even I can't. In my father's hands-on, I secretly vowed that when my parents are old, I will try my best to be filial to him and my mother.
Father's Day is coming, I hope my father is healthy and happy here, and I hope all the fathers in the world are happy and healthy!