In different schools, different teachers have different operating methods. Generally speaking, it can be divided into two modes, one is in the form of scoreboard, and different scores correspond to different prizes, all of which are toys or stationery that children like. Only through continuous good performance can we get higher points and get a favorite gift, which is also an honor.
The other is the red flower platform form. For children in kindergartens and lower grades of primary schools, it is happier than anything to wear a small red flower to go home after school every day.
When Candy4 was 4 years old, my family also adopted the model of "stand" and "red flower platform". I will convert all the training items in the daily list into certain points, and when I reach a certain point, I can switch to what she likes. There are erasers, knives, notebooks, stickers, watercolor pens, schoolbags, sports shoes and so on.
And animation (computer) time. For example, 10 points exchange 10 minutes animation viewing time.
This can not only improve children's learning enthusiasm, but also strengthen their self-management ability, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
When making scoreboards, it is best to discuss with children and make them together. Because of personal participation, children's initiative will increase.
It should be noted that rewards and punishments should be clear. Reward and punishment should be combined, so bad habits are hard to change.
With the point reward system, children's awareness of "no pains, no gains" can be established. Nowadays, children like to compare with their neighbors. Seeing that the child has a novelty, I want it myself. If you get it easily every time, children will not cherish it.
Family education points system, like a parent-child game, parents must cooperate seriously. It should be strictly enforced from the beginning. After three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, the enthusiasm of children disappears, and finally it becomes useless and meaningless.
Making loyalty cards with children is also a very pleasant parent-child manual activity. At first, Candy and I cooperated. I cut it with cardboard. She wrote it. She is very serious.
With the participation of parents and children, a warm parent-child picture was formed, leaving unforgettable family memories.
If it is better to have an award ceremony every time, children will feel that their parents pay more attention and are more serious. Also, when awarding prizes, it is best to take a photo and feel nostalgic, which can also increase children's sense of honor.
Finally, the scoreboard must be posted in an eye-catching position at home, which will stimulate you visually and have a subtle influence on you psychologically.
The management mode of family education needs constant innovation. I believe that the future trend is the gamification of management mode, or gamification management.
Whether children or adults, gamification management can effectively improve the efficiency of study or work, and at the same time, change passivity into initiative and reduce the difficulty of management.