1. Strengthen communication with children. Pay special attention to the way of communicating with children, according to their thinking level. For example, according to the thinking of a 5-year-old child, it is better to educate according to the level of a 7-year-old child, instead of educating with an adult's thinking, which will make it difficult to truly integrate with the child.

2. Play more games with children. Adults also need to do their homework before educating their children, and know their children's study and life in school in advance, as well as the games and thinking problems they are concerned about. Strengthen communication by playing games with children (of course, he will be interested in them), watching TV and shopping together.

3. Make rules. In the process of educating children, through consultation with children, formulate the rules of life that he recognizes.