In recent years, the heat caused by the topic of widowed education has been high. Widowed education means that the father of the child is absent from the child's growth, life and education, and the mother is responsible for the child's daily life, growth and study. It is parents who lack companionship and emotional support in family education. There are many reasons for the emergence of widowed parenting. The most common is left-behind children, whose fathers have been working outside for a long time, and may come back once or twice a year, or even once every few years. Mothers are only responsible for the growth and education of their children. Obviously, it is the child of two people, but in the end it is raised by one person, which directly leads to the child's long-term inability to feel the care and companionship from his father. Another reason is that although both parents are at home, the father has been absent from the growth and education of his children for a long time. Fathers will be busy with work, socializing and even never accompany their children in their spare time. The main reason for widowhood and child-rearing is China's ancient concept. There's an old saying in China, the man is the master outside and the woman is the master inside, so many people take it for granted that raising children, doing housework and cleaning up everything at home are all things that women should do. After marriage, women should be housewives and take care of everything inside and outside the house, while men only need to go out to work to earn money to support their families. When they get home, they don't have to be responsible for anything, whether it's housework or anything for their children. Even in this age of equality between men and women, this old concept still exists. Most fathers don't even know what grade their children are in, when they go to school, or even their hobbies. The father's long-term lack of companionship with his children will directly lead to problems in the child's personality. Children who lack fatherly love are even more insecure, and children who grow up with their parents are far from cheerful. Moreover, mothers educate their children in a completely different way from fathers. When children lack the masculine education of their fathers, they will be more vulnerable and unable to accept setbacks, because these things cannot be learned from their mothers. For children, example is the best education.