In the past, children went to school and did housework by themselves. Children in the past become contemporary parents, and modern children are not allowed to do it. This shows that these are all anxious for parents, and children are the projection of their parents' other selves. They seem to "love" their children and don't let them do this or that, but they are actually loving themselves.

China's traditional education is an autocratic educational concept, which emphasizes that children should be regarded as their own private things, not independent people. When parents treat their children as equal members of the family, they will allow them to undertake family affairs.