In fact, parents' personality plays a vital role in children's growth, because children receive the most information from their parents. Moreover, children will unconsciously imitate their parents' attitude towards others or their parents' attitude towards themselves, so a large part of their personality is caused by their parents. If a gentle mother comes to educate a child, then her character must be very gentle and considerate.
Because a gentle person, he must be very tolerant, and his personality is also very slow and not too impatient. If you are too impatient with your child, he will certainly feel inferior, because he will feel that everything he has done is wrong in the eyes of his parents and can't do anything well. In the long run, his inferiority complex will become more and more serious, which is also very unfavorable to his mental health development.
Therefore, when educating children, we should give them more patience, and we need to educate them by teaching instead of yelling and scolding them. Because children are born naughty, they will make mistakes, not to mention that children will make some mistakes from time to time, and if there are too many mistakes, people naturally like to cover up their mistakes. In the long run, it is easy for children to develop a character of avoiding responsibility. In a word, the children's psychology taught by gentle mothers is definitely more firm and psychologically tolerant than that taught by violent mothers.