Many parents always look aloof when facing their children. However, parents and children are equal in personality. If parents always press their children with their own status, then even if the content of education is reasonable, it is impossible for them to accept it. Therefore, parents need to communicate with their children equally and respect their feelings.

Seek perfection and blame.

After all, children have not grown up, and may not be able to clean up their rooms, but parents should not be too hard on their children. If parents always say "you are too bad" to their children, it will hurt their self-esteem invisibly.

Praise often.

Appreciation education is not constantly praising children, but more importantly, respecting and encouraging children. Excessive and unnecessary exaggeration will only make children complacent, and if children are used to listening to their parents' exaggeration, they will not listen to other people's suggestions after entering the society and will easily suffer setbacks.

4. Too many restrictions

The world seen by children is different from that seen by adults. If parents always limit their children's behavior of exploring the world, children will be very disgusted.

care too much about

Many parents always like to ask questions, even their children's diaries, but this excessive concern will make their children disgusted. Children will feel that their parents have been bothering them and have no independent space, which leads to their loss of development opportunities and even rebellious psychology.

Completely deny

Many parents often talk too much when criticizing their children. For example, telling children "you are the dumbest in the family" will make them very unhappy, naturally refuse to accept their parents' teaching, and even have the idea of "breaking the jar and breaking the fall" and are unwilling to correct their mistakes.

7. it's right and wrong

"The child likes to drink like his father", does this sentence sound like praise or criticism? In children's understanding, parents may think that they are praising themselves. Therefore, when criticizing children, we must be clear about the problem and let them know where they are wrong.

8. belittle others

It is ok to compare one's children with others' children occasionally, but if parents only see the advantages of others' children and ignore their own children, education will easily have the opposite effect.

9. Everything has been replaced

Many parents let their children do nothing but make decisions for them. Although the starting point is good, I am worried that the child will be frustrated. However, children need to learn from their mistakes and grow up. Moreover, children will face their own choices one day, so it is not good for children's future not to cultivate nursing from an early age.

10. Don't set an example

Many parents fail to set a good example for their children when educating them. Parents have to blame their children when they imitate what their parents do badly. The so-called words and deeds, parents need to set a good example for their children, in order to make them imperceptible.