How to improve the ability of family education and how to cultivate children is a problem that many parents think about. There will be happiness and trouble in the process of growing up. Clearing the obstacles on the road to growth is conducive to children's better growth and making joint efforts to make children more likely. How to improve the ability of family education and teach you how to educate children.
How to improve the ability of family education 1 Family education must first "educate" good parents. As the first environment for children's growth, family plays a special role in cultivating children's ideological and moral character, emotional interests, living habits and behavioral norms. As the saying goes, parents are the first teachers and lifelong mentors in the process of children's growth. In family education, parents should receive good family education training, establish correct family education concepts, master scientific family education methods, closely cooperate with school teachers, give play to their own advantages, and play a greater role in educating children's all-round growth, which is more conducive to their healthy growth. In the implementation of the "planning", we should first educate parents, not only guide and urge parents to fulfill their responsibilities and obligations, but also teach parents correct and scientific methods of educating people, so that family education and school education can promote each other and improve together.
"Educate" good parents and run parent schools well. The "Planning" clearly establishes parent schools or family education guidance service sites, with urban communities reaching 90% and rural communities (villages) reaching 80%. As a strategic plan, we need to set development goals. With these goals, we can concentrate on it. However, in implementation, it is necessary to prevent only staring at the target or even deliberately "reaching the standard". Running a parent school well has not only coverage problems, but also quality and efficiency problems. According to the local conditions, efforts should be made to strengthen teachers' strength and improve teachers' teaching level, so that parents' schools can truly become the "alma mater" for training qualified parents, take cultivating family education as a special "normal" education, and make unremitting efforts to lay a good foundation for teachers to improve parents' educational ability.
Improve parents' educational ability, there are poems outside the poem. Family education is a very comprehensive art and an extremely heavy shaping project. It not only requires parents to have all kinds of knowledge and insight, but also requires parents to know how to better mobilize their children's enthusiasm, so that children can obtain good quality in knowledge, making friends, life and cultivation, and also urge children to give full play to their potential. This essentially raises a question, how can all sectors of society strive to improve parents' educational ability. The nine central departments formulated this plan, which is to study family education from many aspects. All localities should pay attention to vertical and horizontal connections, especially make full use of the carrier of ideological and moral construction, and take the promotion of core values as the top priority. First, we should lay a more solid foundation in parent education, improve the comprehensive ability of parent education, and inherit excellent genes for Lide Shu Ren.
Family education is a university question. Parents should fully realize the importance of family education, take the initiative to accept family education, closely cooperate with school teachers, and strive to play a greater role in cultivating children's ideological and moral character, emotional interests, living habits and behavioral norms.
How to improve the ability of family education 2 1 Parents must have a strong sense of responsibility.
Specifically, parents' sense of responsibility should be reflected in the following aspects:
(1) Establish the concept of "building the country through teaching". Children are not only their own children, but also the future of the motherland. It is the responsibility of parents to educate their children well.
(3) Seriously do everything to educate children. Educating children is a long and arduous process. No matter how busy and unhappy parents are, they cannot relax their education. They should guide, help, train and check children according to their physical and mental development needs and actual situation, and correct and supplement them in time if they find any mistakes in education.
2. Parents must have certain scientific and cultural knowledge.
Generally speaking, the higher the knowledge level of parents, the more conducive to the scientific implementation of family education and the cultivation of excellent children. Specifically, parents should especially master the following knowledge:
(1) Basic knowledge of Chinese, mathematics, nature, history and politics.
(2) common sense of sports, music, art, dance, drama and film and television. This knowledge is indispensable for people's entertainment, and it is also an important content for people to exchange ideas and feelings. Children and teenagers are lively by nature, loving body, voice and beauty, but they don't know much about it or understand it. They often ask their parents for help in these areas. If parents know nothing, children will be disappointed and the common language will be reduced.
(3) knowledge of diet, clothing, residence, tourism and medicine. Only by mastering this knowledge can parents ensure the quality of family life and promote the healthy growth of their children. In addition, this knowledge is also indispensable for children to live independently in the future and can only be mastered through family channels.
Parents must have some knowledge about science children.
If parents don't know the scientific knowledge of educating their children, they may make efforts to please their children and even have a negative effect on their growth. So,
While mastering scientific and cultural knowledge, parents must also learn and master specialized educational knowledge, including the following aspects:
(1) Psychological knowledge. Through the study of teenagers' psychology, we can understand the age characteristics and personality characteristics of children's psychological development, grasp the law of children's psychological changes, and provide basis for education.
(2) Physiological knowledge. By learning the physiological knowledge of teenagers and children, we can understand the knowledge of children's physical development, organ maturity and physique, guide children to eat, sleep, exercise and health care according to the laws of physiological exercise, actively exercise, pay attention to hygiene and improve their physical quality.
(3) knowledge of pedagogy. If you understand that children's physiology and psychology, intelligence and morality are interdependent, you must never ignore the development of one hand for the sake of the development of the other. Another example is to know how to help children understand problems by persuasion and education, and never let children accept the opinions of adults by beating, cursing and giving money.
(4) Talent knowledge. Parents should understand the characteristics of the times and the law of talent growth through talent learning, provide suitable family conditions for their children to become talents, guide their children to strive for success through their own efforts, and develop according to social needs and personal actual needs after they become talents.
4. Parents must have certain educational ability.
Mainly includes the following aspects:
(1) language expression ability.
(2) understand the child's ability.
(3) the ability to analyze and deal with problems. Parents should make an appropriate, objective and timely judgment on the cause, nature, degree and consequences of the problem on the basis of a comprehensive understanding of the situation, and put forward practical and simple ways to get rid of it. For example, analyze the reasons for the decline in children's learning and help him catch up quickly.
Parents must have good psychological quality.
To do a good job in family education, parents should especially improve themselves in the following aspects:
(1) Confidence and courage. Parents should be confident in their ability to educate their children on the basis of objective evaluation of their own quality, family conditions and children's performance, and believe that their children will certainly become talents and make continuous progress. Even if you encounter difficulties, don't be discouraged, but have the courage to overcome them. Some children from poor families, with the guidance and support of their parents, are successful examples.
(2) love and enthusiasm.
(3) Reason and tolerance. Parents should maintain a stable mood, take their time, treat their children objectively and fairly, and calmly deal with difficult problems. We should not only look at the problem from the perspective of adults, but also think about the cause and effect from the perspective of children, forgive children's ignorance and negligence, encourage children in trouble and comfort injured children.
(4) Perseverance and patience. Educating children is a long-term and arduous task, which requires long-term planning and short-term arrangement, perseverance and step by step. Be patient and meticulous, be specific and thoughtful, and don't be careless. If there is any omission, make it up in time.
Of course, good moral quality is also one of the necessary qualities for parents. Parents can only educate and influence their children's progress through their exemplary behavior. If parents' own moral conduct is bad, it is difficult to educate their children well, as Confucius, a famous ancient educator, said: "Being honest and doing things without orders; His body is not straight, although he disobeys.