In the process of our growth, sex education is mainly based on "self-study", and the degree of learning basically depends on individual nature.

Now that we are parents, we realize that we should educate our children about sex as soon as possible, but at the same time we still insist on avoiding it too directly and euphemistically.

Preschool children aged 4-6 have just developed from the thinking mode of perceiving actions to the thinking mode of relying on specific images. In order to help them build a cognitive framework about sex, they need to do it in a vivid, interesting and directly perceptible way, avoiding pure language preaching.

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It is difficult to educate children about sex, mostly not because children are unwilling or unable to learn, but because parents (adults) don't know enough about the meaning of sex education, which leads to poor compliance. For example, they think, "I was taught when I was a child, so I'm fine?"

Is it so important to educate children about sex? Give you three reasons for reference:

1, reducing psychological harm;

2. Establish a reasonable boundary about the body;

3. Less sexually transmitted diseases, such as AIDS.

Today, I attended the training of AIDS prevention lecturers organized by Pudong CDC, and learned that AIDS was mainly caused by drug addicts and sex workers in the past. Now the most common crowd is students, especially college students, and the mode of transmission is mainly male-to-male communication!

Someone brilliantly summed up that "the fundamental reason is the lack of sex education+the repression of high school+the indulgence of university".

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Parents of babies aged 4-6 can use role-playing games to educate their children about sex. During the game, we should grasp the following three points:

1, the names of body parts should be understood clearly, and don't beat around the bush, for example, directly introduce the names of chest, nipple, perineum, penis and so on to children.

2. Play at least three roles, such as aunt (uncle) next door, doctor, uncle's big brother and so on.

3. In a certain period of time, such as a week or a month, it must be repeated many times to have the effect of affecting the child's actual behavior.

Frequently asked questions include:

1, subjectively think that sexual assault should be done by unknown people, ignoring the role of familiar people in the exercise. In fact, most reported sexual assault cases are committed by acquaintances.

I didn't pay attention to the fact that I had to be accompanied by my parents to see the doctors.

3. If the child is cheated during the game, he will criticize excessively, resulting in emotional conflict of the child.

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