Fantasy is reality is known as a psychological reading that really solves the problems of self, love, marriage, parents and children!

brief Introduction of the content

Fantasy is the inner reality. What your world looks like is related to you and has nothing to do with the world.

Man is really such an animal. Without emotion, he will be "starved to death" Too many emotions will "support" to death; No more, no less, good. From this perspective, affection and love should be close to friendship;

The affection between people pollutes money, not money pollutes the affection between people;

Parents also claim to be good for their children when they hit them, which is obviously to cover up the subconscious malice;

A parent who is full of anxiety and has no sense of humor always finds fault with his children as soon as he talks to them, as if he doesn't show that he loves them. * After that, harsh suggestions created one child after another who lacked self-confidence;

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This book originated from the process of treatment. However, this book is not only a simple record of the treatment process, not only a "simple" treatment note, but a dose of "Zeng's pill" carefully thought by Zeng Qifeng as a psychologist after witnessing countless human joys and sorrows, love and hate. The book is full of thought-provoking, thought-provoking, well-meaning and therapeutic quotations, which are concise and profound.

Brief introduction of the author

Zeng Qifeng

1986 graduated from Tongji Medical University, participated in the first Sino-German continuing training program for senior psychotherapists, and was the deputy chief physician of psychiatry. Founder and first president of Wuhan Sino-German Psychological Hospital. He is a member of the Professional Committee of China Health Professional and Technical Qualification Examination, deputy head of the Psychoanalysis Group of China Mental Health Association and head of Central China, a member of the Psychiatric Committee of Wuhan Branch of Chinese Medical Association, and a Chinese member of German-Chinese Psychotherapy Hospital (an institution registered in Germany). Member of Academic Committee of Mental Health Research Center of Tongji Medical College, Huazhong University of Science and Technology, and columnist of Psychological Counseling, the exclusive national psychological counseling magazine.

Editor's recommendation

1. Mr. Zeng Qifeng is a famous psychologist and best-selling author. He is a trainee, the first continuous training program for senior psychotherapists in China and Germany, and the deputy chief physician of psychiatry. The founder and the first dean of Wuhan Sino-German Psychological Hospital are not emotional experts who have become monks halfway. Therefore, this book emphasizes the application of psychology and the thorough solution of people's psychological problems, which is completely different from books with emotional guidance such as Qilu.

2. At the same time, the author is a columnist of Psychological Counseling, an exclusive psychological counseling magazine in China, with a huge number of fans and a high reputation in both professional and psychological counseling fields.

3. This book originated from the treatment process, and it is a dose of "Zeng's Pill" given by the author to China's family relationship, husband-wife relationship, parent-child relationship and single men and women through serious thinking. Let people trapped in the abyss of problems re-recognize the facts behind the phenomenon and find the direction of happiness.

4. The book is full of thought-provoking, thought-provoking, well-meaning and therapeutic quotations, which are concise and meaningful.

catalogue

Foreword 1: Zeng Qifeng smells like fireworks.

Foreword 2: class, wine, books, those things between Lao Wu and Lao Zeng.

Preface 3: The laity of psychoanalysis

Chapter 1 The truth about mental illness

Dissatisfaction is an attack on oneself.

Will you be happy?

Why don't people understand you?

Why does the recipient hate you?

Laziness is the default loyalty.

To trust others is to trust yourself.

Illness and weakness are self-fearful.

Don't say anything too right.

With the heart of the game, do things to support the family.

I hope I can have everything.

Eating is also a "weak" state.

Affection and love should be combined with the quality of friendship.

In the name of goodwill, do evil.

Attitude towards disease is part of it.

Excessive expectations are sadistic.

You're not sick

Chapter II War to Change Destiny

Do you have "no money personality disorder"?

"Oedipus complex" is not Oedipus

Your love is the best "frustration education" for children

Love is the freedom of children to make their own decisions.

Dad is still a "junior high school student"

You taught people how to treat you.

The essence of fatigue is to attract others' attention.

Don't be strong and optimistic when you are sad.

Butterfly effect of anxiety

Never mature at an immature age.

Why do you always touch that teetering tooth?

How did you find your luck?

Will "action" bring luck or disaster?

Learn to live.

Are you wasting your life in adolescence?

Who did the bullet of anxiety shoot at?

Conversation makes a man.

Don't control your children with love.

Turn home into an "entertainment city" for healthy people

Son with internet addiction at home

Growing up is betraying childhood.

The third chapter is the disguise of the mind.

The magic of "I love you"

It could have been less sad.

"A drop of water, a stream of water" is narcissism.

Trauma addiction

Self-love is made by yourself.

Unnecessary reminders are hints.

The age of the mind

Appearance is always determined by the heart.

Add a sense of friendship to family ties.

Stubborn heart is full of dependence on them.

Catchwords make you lack creativity

Complaining-the embarrassment of inferiority

Life is a series of trauma.

Chapter IV Knowledge of Psychoanalysis

Find someone to do psychological analysis.

The goal of psychotherapy

Freud also had weaknesses.

Inner security has nothing to do with the outside world.

Where does depression come from?

Son, you don't owe mom and dad anything.

Basic principles of psychological intervention of "Internet addiction"

What did the ten years of "Middle Durban" teach me?

People with depression are serious self-punishers.

Debate between schools of psychotherapy

After reading so many books on psychology, why can't I solve my own problems?

Appendix: Classic Quotations of Zeng Qifeng's Psychoanalysis

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