Three states of successful education:
1. Children are full of confidence in sunshine and positive. This should come from the optimism of parents or at least one of them. A good family atmosphere gives children the courage to love themselves and others. There is no reason not to be optimistic about loving families and children raised by loving parents.
2. Self-discipline, self-improvement and goal. Successful education is not a child's test scores, not a ranking of grades, but a child's spirit of always eager to learn. In such a family, failure is allowed, full of encouragement and appreciation, children are responsible for their own achievements, and parents are not anxious. They give freedom back to their children, and at the same time teach future generations goals and distances.
3. Successful family education is to educate good and equal citizens. Allow rebellion, equal communication, free communication and patient listening. Only when the children of this family go to the society will they respect others, unite with colleagues and break out of their own sky.
On the other hand, the failure of family education is constantly comparing one's children with others, suppressing the children, judging him condescendingly and demanding him. I don't care about his feelings, I don't listen to his heart, and I can't see the progress of my child. Over time, children lose interest in learning and indulge in games that make him happy. At the same time, generally speaking, parents of children who don't work hard will also have some problems, either communication problems or lack of care. In short, family education must be based on the full acceptance, patience, equality, listening and guidance of children, which may be repeated, but persistence will lead to results. Believe in yourself and your children, come on!