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The child asked, "You can play with your mobile phone. Why can't I play with my mobile phone? " Your answer is very important.
My parents reflected this problem the other day.

The reason is that during the Golden Week in May, she went out for an outing with several relatives.

After taking the tent, you are preparing lunch and toys. As a result, the child hid in the tent, and a person, mobile phone, shouted several times.

There is no imagination between children, but most of the time they are holding mobile phones and there is almost no communication.

Later at dinner in the evening. Her 3-year-old Xiaoyan watches cartoons and looks at her eyes with her mobile phone.

Parents said that because his daughter often played for a long time, after this day, he ran over and asked her: Why can some people play for so long, but I can't?

Parents don't know how to answer her.

Indeed, daily manager, we can stop your children from playing with mobile phones, but in the big environment, what should our children do when other children are playing with mobile phones?

When did the mobile phone have a "baby artifact"?

Children don't eat;

Children disturb our work;

Children quarrel in public;

.......

Mobile phones can get everything.

Although we are playing with your mobile phone, there is already a law in France that primary and secondary school students must use mobile phones throughout the campus and classroom.

Since September 20 18, this measure has been fully implemented.

The survey shows that:

For children aged 0-5, the usage rate of smart phones exceeds 80%, and mobile phones over 3 years old play mobile phones over 30%.

But "Apple Dad" worked, but he didn't let the three children play with the iPad and mobile phone before.

He said: "We use smart products to limit the children at home."

As a research and development, he knows the harm of smart products to children.

German child psychologists have completed the test:

They asked three groups of five-year-old children to draw little people on paper.

Therefore, there are almost no children every day, and the most complete and beautiful people are the most complete and beautiful.

Watching TV for more than 3 hours every day is simple, turtle.

Children who watch TV content are unrestricted, with prominent figures and incomplete feet or only parts of their bodies. This is obviously because children are influenced by some bad content on TV.

Psychologists have come to the conclusion that exposing your children to electronic products too early will greatly damage their brain development and affect their cognition, imagination and creativity.

Moreover, the damage is irreversible.

Nowadays, many children wear glasses earlier, mainly because of premature contact with electronic screens.

Because cartoons or children's games are mostly brightly colored, the picture becomes too fast, and children's visual nervous system is very tired.

The University of Washington has experiments to prove that:

Children increased from 10 months to 10 months, and the risk of "attention deficit" under 7 years old increased 10%.

Stimulated by the light and shadow from the electronic screen, it is difficult for children who adapt to the fast pace to condense in a relatively ordinary and static real life environment.

A primary school teacher said, I can't sit still in class, I love God, I can't understand children's words, and 80% of them have the habit of playing mobile phones and watching TV too much.

In addition, playing mobile phones will aggravate children's obesity, weaken immunity, and affect high growth and sports development.

Children who like to play mobile phones have been stolen, and children of the same age have lost their competitiveness.

I saw a video in which a seven-or eight-year-old boy raised his knife with his grandfather. Yang said, "I won't pay, I'll kill you."

The reason is that he is addicted to a mobile game that costs money, and his grandfather won't give him money.

The mobile phone bewitched the child and lost his last reason and morality.

Psychologists say:

When children are allowed to touch electronic products, the formation and development of children's personality will lead to anxiety, depression, violence, indifference, self-isolation, split personality and even violence.

If we don't limit ourselves and work hard, you will give you a leaping child. The mobile phone is easy to swallow.

At a family reunion, two boys made me feel more.

As soon as a boy came in, I started playing with my mobile phone. I don't care about people and things around me.

Dad urged him to eat many times. He moved several times and didn't move. His mother fed the fruit into her mouth. He chewed mechanically. Take care of children with rice for several years.

Mobile phones are like spiritual poppies, which take away a child's originality and flourish.

The other boy is patient, modest and polite to his relatives, and comfortable to accompany you.

According to his mother, she bought a mobile phone for her children, but they seldom play it, and they still have time to exercise and read books. I heard that this child got excellent grades, and I was rated as an excellent class cadre in "Three Wonderful Life" and "My Life". Of course not.

Can mobile phones predict whether children are interested in the future?

Maybe not.

However, in a sense, the child's attitude towards mobile phones has been dealt with, which will affect his attitude towards life and the future.

I have seen two news stories before:

A 13-year-old girl in Hebei did not study at night, secretly played with her mobile phone, and her mother broke her mobile phone and ran away from home.

Henan junior high school boys, with unsatisfactory grades, were criticized by their father and refused to accept mobile phones. They committed suicide by drinking pesticides in a rage.

How vulnerable are these children?

A survey in the United States shows that 3 1% of teenagers commit suicide by playing electronic products such as mobile phones.

In our country, because of China 15-year-old "Internet autism" children, there are more and more children under mobile phones-the characters in mobile phones return to reality, but their personality is fragile and their psychology is fragile, largely because something will go to extremes.

Most of these children have no spiritual learning. "I am in Chinese-English New Chinese-English" plays the image of "pseudo-learner" in Japan after the same age.

Some netizens met a group of Japanese primary school students at Chiang Mai Airport in Thailand. They are either sitting in chairs or sitting on the ground. No one is playing with a mobile phone, but reading a book.

In addition to moving, more than.

The gap between children who like playing mobile phones and children who don't like playing mobile phones may be farther than we think.

In such an intelligent age, it is difficult for children to play mobile phones.

What should I do? Right?

Cultivate reading habits first, and then contact electronic products.

Children's organizations in many countries suggest:

It is best not to touch electronic products before the age of 2.

3-6 years old can use the mobile phone normally for no more than half an hour every day.

6- 18 years old should be exposed to electronic products within 2 hours.

Hong Lan, a brain scientist, suggested that it is good to have a dynamic electronic screen when children's reading habits and interests are cultivated.

Time to operate and play electronic products

Many times, children playing mobile phones is temporary, unrestricted and addictive.

We can make rules for your children. If you can spend half an hour after school, you can watch movies on Saturday. Younger children can only watch cartoons every day.

When the habit is formed, children and parents will become a kind of consciousness, and there will be no seesaw.

Parents are very important.

A friend of a friend, I said my father's words while playing with my mobile phone:

Dad, you are so ugly! Like a big smelly shrimp on the sofa!

An ambitious man.

It turns out that our mobile phones are so ugly among your children.

If you want children to play mobile phones less, tell them a hundred times. It better be a useful example.

The friendship between parents makes children see the world better.

Long Yingtai said: "Play, this is the foundation of heaven and earth."

The best parents are the most popular parents for children.

Taking children for a walk, traveling and Expo, children will observe insects, birds and grass in the book, feel mountains, seas, clouds and fog, and expand their horizons and thoughts in the book.

Because children are naturally irrigated, children are infiltrated by humanities, and children are influenced by this book. It is interested in the sky. How to print on electronic products such as mobile phones?

It is said that education is the finance of parents and the aura of children, but the best thing is the cohesion between parents and children.

Good parents like children who are attentive, listen to them and guide them, instead of throwing mobile phones.

A small phone call often hides parents' philosophy and children's future.

May parents be together!