The benefits of "encouraging education" are powerful and can help children recover from their lost psychology. However, as parents, we should master the educational methods flexibly, and we should not overindulge, be tolerant and unprincipled. According to the different children, we should also punish them moderately without harming their physical and mental health, so that children can correct their mistakes when they know them, know them and keep them in mind.
The essence of education is to train children's way of thinking, let them know the principle and law of a thing, and learn and cultivate their ability to think and solve problems. The purpose of encouraging education is to give children a spiritual motivation. This is positive guidance. But on the other hand, it is necessary to ask the wrong questions and take measures to correct them, because children have not yet formed their own way of thinking, and it is easy to go astray in the process of growing up.
Therefore, it is the right way for parents to encourage and guide obedient children and criticize disobedient children. There is no difference in essence. The most important thing is to let children understand that the fundamental purpose of education is to understand the development law of things, learn the methods of analyzing problems, and develop their own thinking habits.
Incentive education is the most popular and practical education at present. It won't work if we just encourage children to give thumbs up to everything they do, or just say on the surface that you are really smart or you are great. We need a degree to encourage our children. For example, many parents encourage their children to have a meal, and the children say something, or put on some clothes and do something. They all say you are great, and it's useless for children to listen too much. Encourage children, pay attention to the actual details to praise, don't praise everything, two or three times a day is enough, especially praise the details of children's work process. The child knows what to praise him for what he has done well, so as to play its due role.
Encouragement is the first choice of teaching under the premise of "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude". Encourage children to explore the advantages of their growth and progress, and encourage them to be "targeted" instead of encouraging children to do everything. There are no two identical leaves and no two identical people in the world. Therefore, teaching children to learn and grow requires "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude", which varies from person to person and guides them according to the situation. In the process of teaching children to grow up, we should choose appropriate teaching methods and methods according to different children's cognitive level, learning ability and their own quality to stimulate their own learning interest and growth.