The growth of children is a long process. It takes time and experience for them to go from complete ignorance to basic understanding of everything in the world.
In the process of children's growth, if parents blindly suppress them, their self-confidence and self-esteem will be seriously frustrated, which is very unfavorable to their future development.
Repressive education is harmful to children and will bring three major influences to them.
Children who become self-abased and often suppressed by their parents will become timid and self-abased, and they will become afraid of doing anything and doing something wrong. Even in the process of getting along with others, I am afraid, care too much about other people's ideas and lose myself.
Such children are still more dependent on their parents in the future, and feel that they can accomplish nothing without their parents.
Children who are afraid of hard work and often suppressed by their parents will become depressed and dare not fight for their future. Because I am too afraid of my parents' words, I lose my confidence and have no correct understanding of myself, so I am even more afraid to move forward.
Such children dare to move forward only after they have relative self-confidence, so their future will be extremely limited.
Become ignorant, and most of the children's character shaping comes from the environment. If parents blindly suppress their children's self-confidence, children will become blind and ignorant. They lack the courage to overcome difficulties and meet challenges, so their lives will become very passive.
Such a child can easily derail from the world without society, let alone take control of his own destiny.
In life, it is better to cultivate children's independent ability than to suppress their self-confidence. If children have a certain independent ability, they can control their own destiny and their future direction in the future.
Parents can cultivate their children's independent ability from an early age, such as letting their children buy food and learn to make their own choices. In a subtle way, children will begin to know how to make their own decisions, make their own judgments and know what they want.
There are thousands of ways for parents to educate their children, but repressive education is the most ineffective method, which will do some harm to children's minds. Therefore, parents should try not to use this method, but should encourage and appreciate their children's behavior so that their children can develop better.