1. Children under three years old are mostly naughty children under three years old. They are naturally naughty, even naughty, and some children may be particularly willful. At this time, parents must seize the opportunity to educate their children. If they fail to educate their children well before the age of three, so that they have a sense of rules and obey their parents' arrangements, then they are likely to be more naughty when they grow up, and their parents can't discipline them.
In some places in Xiong Haizi, parents are so spoiled before they are three years old that they can't manage it when they grow up, even in public. Children before the age of three should be disciplined more strictly, so that they can feel the majesty of their parents. This stage is the time for children to make rules, and it is also the process of laying the educational foundation for him.
Second, primary schools pay attention to communication with children. When children grow up in primary school, we should communicate with them more. Primary school is a very critical stage. At this stage, they will develop study habits, even their future living habits. At this time, parents don't have to be so strict in education, and they can do both hard and soft. Many bad habits may be brought to primary school, so at this time, we must help him correct and help him establish new habits.
So at this time, parents are not only strict disciplinarians, but also friendly guides. These two identities are carried out together, and different grades need different educational methods. For the first-grade children, he is still naughty, but for the sixth-grade children, he basically has his own ideas.
Third, make friends with junior high school children. In junior high school or even high school, they will enter a rebellious period. This rebellious period is actually very difficult to educate, especially for some boys, their thoughts will be more impetuous. For girls, there will be some secrets that they don't want to tell their parents, but at this time, if parents can become friends with their children, they can solve these small problems. Although they have a rebellious period, they are happy to share these things with their friends. At this stage, parents must learn to respect their children. Maybe a child will listen to his parents when he is young, but after junior high school, he may have his own ideas and refute everything we say. Therefore, we must respect their ideas, think seriously and treat them as adults, not as three-year-old children.
Children of different ages have different personality development. When I was a child, I was very naughty, and my parents could control it with a few words. But when they say a few words in junior high school and senior high school, they may be bored, so we must pay attention to adopting different educational methods at different stages to better cultivate children.