In such a family, after the son gets married, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often bad. Mother-in-law will be hostile and jealous of her daughter-in-law, who may be regarded as a mistress. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, it was her daughter-in-law who took her son away. In this type of family, the relationship between father and son is often very tense. A father will suppress his son and never admit his son to satisfy his narcissism. The son's narcissism is damaged and a new narcissist is formed. A loved child can cultivate the ability to share empathy. When a child has the ability of empathy, he will begin to develop his own conscience and morality, as well as the consciousness of self-reflection.
In a narcissist, he has no ability to share, and he can't understand other people's feelings, because maybe when he was very young, he was never treated like this in the process of communicating with his mother, and he was too lacking in empathy, sharing, moral conscience and empathy. The main emotion in the whole family is anger, and the foreign daughter-in-law or son-in-law will become the scapegoat for this family to transfer contradictions.
Long-term and strong demand for companionship, and excessive panic about being abandoned. This is also a fundamental reason why we can't leave as adults. Even if they hurt us again and again, we still dare not leave. Although the narcissist's family is divided internally, it is very consistent externally. In such a family, parents may be selfish and indifferent, and the whole family has almost no ability to empathize. Their feelings are shallow and lack intimacy. Children educated by this family will inevitably have problems and troubles in many intimate relationships if they don't grow up hard.