Parents must adhere to the principle of consistency in educating their children. It is common for grandparents and young parents to have contradictions in educating their children. How to deal with it correctly? Give some advice: (1) Be considerate of the elderly. Out of love, the old man's love for his children and grandchildren is selfless. Children should respect and care for the elderly. (2) The educational concepts and methods of the two generations have their own advantages and disadvantages. If young people are wrong, they should take the initiative to admit it. If the old man is wrong, we should reason with him on the premise of respecting him. Young parents should take the initiative to communicate with grandparents, explain why you want to do this, let the elderly know that you are not arrogant or distrust the elderly, and psychologically recognize your educational methods and abilities. (3) When encountering specific educational problems, it is best for both sides to discuss in advance, unify their views and take concerted actions. Children should not be found when there are differences of opinion between two generations. If there is an emergency and it is too late to discuss it, one party should temporarily withdraw and exchange views afterwards. Never quarrel in front of children. If children are told about the different attitudes between adults, it is easy to learn to take advantage of loopholes, which is not only not conducive to the healthy growth of children, but also makes children gradually develop the dual behavior of observation and observation, which affects the educational effect. (4) If the elderly have certain cultural knowledge, they can introduce some family education books and periodicals for them to read. Might as well buy some magazines or books about family education. First, as parents, we should learn to master the knowledge of family education; Secondly, consulting books together in the case of disagreement can avoid contradictions. Or put the book in a conspicuous position, deliberately guide the elderly to read books, understand the psychological and age characteristics of children, and understand modern educational methods. You can also invite the elderly to participate in parent-child activities in kindergartens, and if necessary, ask teachers to help the elderly improve their educational methods, and the effect will be better. (5) As parents, no matter how busy you are, you should take time to take care of your children, and you can't leave everything to your elders. Otherwise, when you have different opinions, how can your parents be happy or allow you to "give orders" at will? If conditions permit, only leave the children's daily life, games and entertainment to the elderly. You are responsible for other things related to children's growth and education, but avoid making "unpleasant" behaviors in front of the elderly. If necessary, you can ask a nanny to look after your children and chat with the elderly.